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erotic massage with csw, (In US for 3 MO)

Hi all,

I went to get an erotic massage on Tuesday.  She is a Chinese masseuse who told me that she has been here in the US for only three months...very limited English...I could not really communicate with her.
We did not have sex at all, I just received an erotic massage.
She initially gave me an overall body massage, then took off my underwear and began to give me a handjob with oil.
Here's what I'm concerned about:
I DID touch the outside of her vagina(she was naked), but never inserted a finger inside, while she was stimulating my penis. The room was pretty dark, artificial light only, so I could not see her that well.
She never touched herself, only me, but when I was done, and went to wash off, there was what seemed to be blood on my left thumb ( I can only make an educated guess, and say it was from me touching her vagina (on the outside, and MAYBE she was on her period, )
Right next to the now dried blood there was a cut, which was not bleeding, but still a cut...
I did not see any dried blood on the cut, but I was so freaked out I don't even think I could process everything properly. I washed off the "dried blood", or whatever it was, and I tried to ask her is she was bleeding but her English was very limited.  She was in a hurry to get me out..

-Does the fact that she has only been here for 3 months increase her risk of having HIV
-Could some of that blood gotten into my cut, and infected me?
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So not even a remote possibility?

Thanks Teak...and everyone for being here to help....and putting up with all our anxiety ridden q's.

K
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions, therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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Thanks for the reply Teak!
What is a "real" exposure...? there was blood that dried on my skin..

Is transmission even a remote possibility due to potential or actual menstrual blood?
more hiv in menstrual blood?
What if a droplet, or two would have come in contact with my cut?

thank you in advance....im in a relationship and concerned..

K

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You never had an exposure.
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