Getting HIV

[Ash779]

I had done a HIV test in Oct2008 and the results were negative. After that i had some sexual encounters with some prostitutes. Here twice i recieved a ******* without a condom but in all intercourses i had a condom put on my member. The girl with whom i had recieved the ** was quite clean and neither she nor me had any kind a cuts or sores in our members. I had even sucked her nipples and licked her belly. After the intercourse, once i took out my member from her spot and touched the condom wrapped penis. It was all wet with i guess what is implied. I came  inside the condom and after that she cleaned me properly. I just had forgot to wash my hand after the episode and i guess i had food without washing my hands. One month after this incident i had a flu attack and muscle pain coupled with headaches. I did a HIV test and the report was once again negative. Is there a risk that i contract HIV?

[boxer7]

haha Vance must have some patience =]. I study HIV and i must say that you had no risk in the situation you described.

[Vance2335]

I am minor compared to Teak, Lizzie and others.
I am not attached to the medical field or counseling. I have gained knowledge from reading a lot of questions and answers from the Dr's on the expert form and from Teak and others on this form.
As well as reading other trusted sites.

[Ash779]

It seems that you have substantial knowledge about the subject? Are you by any chance attached to the medical profession or counselling of HIV patients?

[Vance2335]

No it is not transmitted that way. It needs to enter the uretha of the male.
Also HIV is fragile and does quickly when away from the host. So when you remeoved your fingers the HIV virus was dying and dead before you had a chance to do anything.

See the transmission risks I posted above. it is the only way it is transmitted.

[Ash779]

Then in that case, when i had inserted a finger inside, it was wet by the female secretions. After taking it out and rubbing it off, might have temporary removed those secretions but is it possible that the *** secretions went inside my system since i had not rinsed my hand with soap and that be a cause?

[Vance2335]

The woman also has fluids and the infection can get into the male. it is easier for all STD's including HIV to be passed from male to female, but still highly possible to pass it from female to male.

[Ash779]

Thanks again.
This one is due to my own curiosity. Can you share with me the possible reason for this?

If a male and a female is having unprotected vaginal sex, how the male becomes prone to HIV infection when the female is on the recepient part recieving the male fluid?

[Vance2335]

Again no risk.
Risks:
Unprotected vaginal/anal sex
IV drug use
Mother to unborn/nursing child

[Ash779]

Buddy, i forgot to mention one fact - After the ** and during the foreplay before intercourse, I had inserted my finger inside the female arena and and kept it there in action for around 3 mins and used it to arouse her in the intended way. After taking it out, though i had rubbed it clean but forgot to wash it before i had food.

After taking it out, i did not notice any puss or any blood on my finegers which may have come from the vagina. It had some vaginal secretions/fluids due to the foreplay and i had rubbed it off but forgot to wash it.

Is there a HIV risk in this?

[Vance2335]

For other STD risks please post in the STD form.

[Ash779]

Thanks a lot buddy. I am quite relieved out of my tensions as of now.

Is there any STD which i may have induced from the encounter?

[Vance2335]

No reason to repeat the test from that experience.
Can you have unprotected sex with your girlfriend? I can't tell you what you should or should not do with your girlfriend. But you did not have a risk of HIV from your above stated encounter.

[Ash779]

The facts yoy stated are correct. No flaws in them. So you mean to say i do not have a reason to repeat an HIV test? I have already done it twice and the result is non reactive?

Can i indulge in Unprotected sex with my gf? This is most important an answer to me. She is negative for sure.

[Vance2335]

Reason for the flu...maybe the flu. See your Dr about symptoms.

Lets look at the facts again as your wrote them:
You received unprotected oral sex-no risk
You had protected intercourse-no risk when the condom is used properly.
You sucked on a breast-no risk
You touched a used condom and then ate-no risk
HIV tests are conclusive at 3 months but you had no risk so no reason to test.

If I stated anything wrong about your "risks" please let me know. If not then no risk from this incident and time to move on.

[Ash779]

Then can you please suggest that what might be the possible reason for the flu and thigh muscle pain or frequent headaches? Is this a reason for any STD?
Can i now have unprotected sex with my gf who is HIV negative. And now that my Test done on 27th Jan confiremd that i am HIV negative too.

[Vance2335]

You had no risk. I read your post and nothing you said posed a risk.

[Ash779]

I had done a HIV test in Oct2008 and the results were negative. After that i had some sexual encounters with some prostitutes. Here twice i recieved a ******* without a condom but in all intercourses i had a condom put on my member. The girl with whom i had recieved the ** was quite clean and neither she nor me had any kind a cuts or sores in our members. I had even sucked her nipples and licked her belly. After the intercourse, once i took out my member from her spot and touched the condom wrapped penis. It was all wet with i guess what is implied. I came  inside the condom and after that she cleaned me properly. I just had forgot to wash my hand after the episode and i guess i had food without washing my hands. One month after this incident i had a flu attack and muscle pain coupled with headaches. I did a HIV test and the report was once again negative. Is there a risk that i contract HIV?

[Ash779]

Can you pleasse comment on my last post? I am worried

[Ash779]

Is there any kind of risk associated if the male ***** on the females nipples? And what about that not washing hand and had food thing? I did a HIV test two weeks back? The est was negative? Can it turn positive?

[Vance2335]

From what I am reading you had no risk. Oral sex is not a risk for HIV and you had protected intercourse, so as long as the condom did not fail then you did not have a risk.