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hiv rish

hello,
I am a 22 years old male who knew another guy from the internet and met. after we kissed, he rubbed my butt with his penis.. not wearing a condom. unprotected. after a while he tried to penetrate me but failed.. I couldn't take it .. but I felt his top of the penis was inside me for less than a second.. than we mutual masturbated... assuming that there was a very slight penetration less than a second.. what was the risk of getting hiv?
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I never had anal before.. i felt like something is pushing but wasnt from the inside.. since its my first time i dont know what exactly it feels like being penetrated...  since the pentration failed .. im scared if it slipped a little bit inside
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So you never had anal before and think that somhow you would not notice the penis going in you? Not here to play "what if".
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Its mostly rubbing but he tried to penetrate me but couldnt.. because since its my first time my **** was tight.. it resisted the entry of his penis.. everytime he tries to put his penis in it goes pushing up... but incase if the head of the penis did go slightly in without me noticing.. assuming if it did without any precum or any other fluids from him for less than a second.. whats the risk?
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It is either it happened or it didn't
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I just want to know if there is a risk assuming if there was a very slight penetration without any fluids being invovled from him
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Its failed.. but im scared if i didnt feel anything as it went slightly in..
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You contradict yourself..."failed to" "slight". It is one or the other.
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He failed to penetrate me.. but the tip of the head of his penis was pushing inside me.. im scraed though if there was a slight penetraion..
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28 day DUO test if you were penitrated
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Isnt 3 weeks early for a blood test? Should i wait longer?
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Thank you i hope it'll be fine
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you will be fine.... stop googling about it, it will lead you to HIV anxiety. i've been to it, and it ain't no fun....Youll be alright.."
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Thank you.. i will do a blood test and hope everything is fine.
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people wont lie about their HIV status when asked directly. Since unprotected anal sex is a high risk, i think a blood test is very important. but don't freak out. it will turn out fine.
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You can do a combo test, Antigen/antibody test, just to make sure. Don't  worry so much you will be fine. NOT everyone has HIV, so that guy might also be negative. But see a doctor to make sure, and get a blood test.
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Thank you for the reply.. i asked him about his status he said he was negative.  He doesnt look like he have hiv and i dont think he would lie about his status. Assuming he was positive, what is the risk that i get hiv. Its freaking me out
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Thanks for the reply..
I asked him about his status.. he said he is negative.. he doesnt look like he have hiv.. and i dont think he would lie about his hiv status... but im scared.. assuming he is positive what is the risk i get hiv? Its freaking me out..
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3 weeks ago
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please calm down yourself, evrything will be alright. The act might be a little risky, but not everyone has HIV. When was your encounter?
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Please.. someone help
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plus he did not ejaculate near my butt.. only on my hand.. there was no precum, no cum, no blood.. or any kind of fluids near my butt..
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I forgot to mention.. that last week (exactly 2 weeks after the incident) I didn't feel well, and the doctor said that is was a flu.. I had headache, sore throat, backache, runny nose,... now its gone.. but I feel somewhat stomachache sometimes everytime I think of the risk.. is it possible these are symptoms of hiv?
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