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urgent help

Hi,
Im male 23 yrs old. in july on my graduation night i bumped into this random girl. We got engaged in oral sex ( genital rubbing with out condom) and i went down on her. I am still concerned that if im exposed to hiv. I am 99% sure that i did not penetrate. Am i at any risk. The reason im asking this question:
sometime whe i ejaculate it hurts a bit.
recently one or two time i saw a black spec in urine.
i have gottten really paranoid.
please help
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HIV is not transmitted outside its host, therefore HIV is not transmitted by frottage.
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ok last post promise, TEAK:
i was rubbing my penis against her vagina, so are you trying to say we cant exchange each others secretion. Its been five days i have been getting fever, it was really mild for first two days (99), now it increased (102). I wenrt t the doc and he gave me two injections with drips and insulin. This fever is really wierd because i dont have diarrhea or soar throat. My whole body is in pain. Sorry for bothering you. OH YES I TOLD THE DOCTOR ABOUT MY INCIDENT AND HE SAID THE SAME THING AS WEL.
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You didn't have a risk and don't need testing for HIV.
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you were not at risk for hiv but if it will make you feel better get tested for your own piece of mind...in the meantime try to relax
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yeah sorry it happened by mistake...so now can you answer my last question please:)
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so that means  frottage with out clothes is safe?
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no risk...you are worried unneccesarily...try to forget about it and move on
ur illness is not due to hiv
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i promise this will be my last question:
Now it has been exactly 2 months 6 days to that incident. yesterday i had soar throat and today im feeling a bit feverish ( don't have soar throat today). Do you think it is related with HIV? i have become really paranoid and i don't enjoy anything. Please help. sorry to bother you guys again and again,
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no risk from frottage
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i am really worried
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i was rubbing my penis on her vargina and then i wne tdown on her. :S i hope that explains it well
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was it vaginal sex or only oral . please elaborate
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please i really need feedback
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