Thank you so much. i try to read your post few more times. because it helps. i ll try not to worry too much. I am going through the worst days of my life so far and it's just too much to handle. thank you for your encouraging post and hopefully it will be ok in the end.
Relax friend. Your 5 mon negative test was 2 mon past conclusive. 3 mon is conclusive (meaining in the history of millions of HIV/AIDS cases, there's probably been less than a few cases that went positive after a 3 month negative).
As for symptoms, HIV symptoms are similar to symptoms of most common ailments, so they're no good to go by. Also, a significant number of people who contract HIV experience no symptoms at all, so again symptoms are worthless.
As to your symptoms:
- headache? maybe because you are stressed out worrying about whether you have HIV? (happened to me)
-ear ache? stress symptom. Or you might have caught a cold
- lump behind your right ear? well, could be a lymph node. maybe you're sick with something else. maybe you bumped your head lightly/unknowlingly.
- stomach pains? again stress. when I got scared from HIV (which I got over, after realizing I was non risk) I was torn up down below, I was alternating diaharrea and constipation for a couple weeks after I became calm in mind.
So chill. You're fine. If you need that 6 mon test, which I believe is accepted the world over, go for it. Get some exercise in the meantime, b/c you seem like someone who is going to stress no matter what