We did I was inquiring while we were waiting for the results. Which was negative. Again I thank you for helping ease people's mind.
My GOD, you have been worried about this since 2000? Like Lizzie said...you don't base your status on someone else's test results...YOU go get tested, which you've had 12 years to do. I don't understand why YOU were the cheater, yet your WIFE was the one who tested? Why didn't you test as well? You should have both tested!!
If there was only one month between the last exposure and testing, then her result would not have been conclusive. The guidelines in 2000 for the window period were 6 months, changed to 3 months in 2004.
There is just simply no reason for you to have waited all of these years to take a test, and if you are worried about your wife, then all she has to do is take another test as well, it would obviously be conclusive...12 years is certainly enough time to become positive.
you want to know YOUR status...YOU test
Even back then? So I should be safe from atleast the first two?