scared from this incident

[scared_and_worried123]

Hi, I've received unprotected prostate massage on two different occasion and those were not simple one. those lasted for 10-15 minutes. I understand that on paper receiving prostate massage is low or no risk but on the same other side, receiving anal is at the highest risk. What if before inserting he finger she touched her fluid and deliberately screwed me up ?

About two weeks later, I got following symptoms that came all together and went away but certain symptoms remaind

1) Fever 2) Rash 3) night sweats 4) fatigue 5) leg muscle pain 6) pin and needle throughout the body 7) hot body 8) burning sensation and hot flashes 9) dry mouth with dehydration 10) mouth ulcer 11) etc...

I gathered the act that this should be body's initial response to fight hiv. The few days went smoothly and noe I've lost about 15 pounds (from 170 to 155) and getting constant pain on my spleen. I also had rheumatic arthritis on my hand and middle of arms were swollen.

I'm so much worried that I may have acquired hiv and these are the symptoms that I'm seeing.

The only thing is 5 week of duo test is negative but can not believe after all these 100% hiv symptoms I could stay in 95% of population where it gets detected by 4 week ...

Help....

[scared_and_worried123]

Can someone help me please understand what could be the problem here in worst case ? I was corrected that that duo test was not duo test but it was saliva test which does not prove anything until you get that test at 3 months...

Yesterday, I have had so much throbbing pain on my spleen and it seems like it may have got bigger. I also now have rashes which does not itch on my chest and face.... :-(

[Chima7]

You had no risk and therefore no reason to test. HIV can only infect inside the body through unprotected anal or vaginal sex and by sharing drug needles. A finger is not a penis and is not able to infect. EVEN IF she touched herself first, you still had no risk because fingers do not spread HIV. Period. No Risk.