scared of hiv

[alexis237]

hi 3 weeks ago i was in miami with some friends, i saw thi girl and i had i 3 shot with my penis inside her vagina was so excited until i csme after 3 shot, it didn't last fr 10 seconds and we had that inside the ocean that means inside water. later after 5 days i did my test obviously negatif, so i confronted her and she told me that she is in the arm force and she get taisted every after 3 months. so i was cool after just 2 week o got something moving on my neck as if u couldn't swallow something, but with no sore , got a little nose congestion, now a lymph is growing under my armpit. i immediately called that girl i even threatening her thag i will take her to justice because not telling ur status to someone is a crime,and sent me a sample of her test saying she is clean but i am still scared.
my questio  what are my chance of being negatif?
xan anxiety leed to all this symptoms because i can't stop thinking about it , my family my  life i play soccer got a career i think every day about it can't eat nor sleep

[Fearofhsv]

Wait why you are focused on hiv,Have you done Unprotected sex.If yes do not worry it might be Anxiety problem or other std problems.Do not focussed on.hiv too much.At 28 days take 4th generation test for conclusive report.For Other std problem you can ask on std forum.

[alexis237]

because i fell some nausea , not everyday like this morning i had it. i am so scared i have no family in the usa, got no one to help me if i have hiv today who is going to help me i am all dead , i have to be scared i dnt want to just believe that girl. this my first time to be so scared rather have another sickness than hiv

[AnxiousNoMore]

You didn't answer the question. Did you use a condom?

[alexis237]

no condom sir we had sex inside water fr like 10 to 15 seconds

[AnxiousNoMore]

alexis - the advice from Fearofhsv  is correct so you need to test. If she gets tested regularly then likely she is not positive so focus on that while you wait to test.

[alexis237]

okay i will focused on that will always be actif in the forum i really dnt know what to do

[alexis237]

sorry to interrupt here doctor but i have had one question for all Doctors of this forum, you ask us not to think about hiv but yet we develop the symptoms, days after days, how do you want us not to think about it. today i am 6 weeks after exposure and here are my symptoms
- stof nose
- chills
-muscle aches like they are iching me
-white tongue my mouth always feel better each time i finish sleeping and my mouth is even iching me
- i keep asking the girl i sleep with dhe says she is clean , but i know i am anxious but i can't stop thinking
1) i want to know how many people in this forum have had all the sero convertion symptoms and came out negative and what did they had then

[laxus2012]

There are no doctors in this section, just members who base their answers off the expert doctors information. you've been told to test at 28 days, you should have tested two weeks ago already. symptoms are not a good way to diagnose HIV, only a test, a 4th gen test for you will be conclusive. stop focusing on symptoms that can be caused by many things and go get tested.