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scared out of my mind...Teak?

I visited a sex worker in Aruba (girls are originally Columbian). I was incredibly drunk but I remember a fair amount. I know for a fact that she gave me oral (condom) and a handjob. We also french kissed and I fingered her and we both sucked each others' nipples. But I'm not sure whether we have vaginal intercourse. I keep second guessing myself because I was under the influence of alcohol.

The next day I had diarrhea and was fatigued. Now, 5 days later I'm back in the US and woke up very sick. I know what I did was incredibly stupid (especially being drunk). Can someone give me advice? What is the ARS timeline? When can I get tested? 3 weeks?

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No, my assessment does not change. You didn't have a risk. You're are not having ARS. If you  are unwell see your doctor.
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What I meant to say is that oral was with condom & handjob was with no condom. I was incredibly drunk and can't remember whether I finished after the handjob. It's conceivable that after taking the condom off for the handjob, we had unprotected vaginal (although I can't remember whether or not we did).

Does your assessment change then? Do you also think 4-5 days is too fast for ARS?

Thanks...thatll be my last Q.
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You were never at risk.
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277836 tn?1359666174
ars 2 to 4 weeks


4 to 5 days wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to early
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Is the "2 to 4 weeks" in reference to the ARS timeline or when I can get tested? Is 4-5 days too early for ARS?

Thanks
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277836 tn?1359666174
2 to 4 weeks

Lay off the beer it sounds as if you werent at risk at ALL
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