I just got a rapid test. My result is negative. Thanks everyone.
You never had a risk and don't need testing.
Hey everyone, I am going to get tested today just for my own peace of mind because I am driving myself insane. I have always had an irrational fear of being tested despite never penetrating someone unprotected and never being penetrated, protected or otherwise. Hell, I think I've only performed oral sex on 3 or 4 penises in my life, although I have received from quite a few. Anyyyyywho, this is a very scary thing for me to do so please keep your fingers crossed for me or pray or whatever it is you do for luck. I'll let you guys know the results. Thanks again so much for your responses.
links...sites...totally unnecessary.
it is a FACT that hiv is transmitted through...
UNPROTECTED vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child
period !
there are over a dozen different proteins and enzymes in the mouth that inhibit transmission.
FROM THE HIV EXPERTS HERE AT MEDHELP:
"As you know from other posts about oral sex, our stance is that giving or receiving oral sex is not a risk for HIV. Some others suggest that there is an appreciable risk of HIV from oral sex however, there are no convincing scientific reports which support these statements. The presence of a burn in your mouth, or a sore, or ingestion of blood does not change this. Still no risk an no reason for testing." DR HOOK
"As far as HIV is concerned, there is no known risk of getting HIV from performing oral sex on an infected partner, even if that person's genital secretions get into your eyes or if you swallow" DR HOOK
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANDSFIELD
"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANDSFIELD
"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK
in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort). DR. HOOK
"With regard to the question you ask, I will repeat, as I’ve said more times than I can think- there are NO credible cases in which persons have acquired HIV through performance of oral sex- none!!. The chance that you will be the first is ridiculously low. You are more likely to be hit by lightening while reading my reply to you. DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." DR HOOK
"There is no credible evidence that HIV is spread through oral sex, with or without the presence of cuts or blood in the persons mouth."- DR HOOK
"Oral sex. there is no evidence that HIV is spread through giving or receiving oral sex"- DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread through oral sex." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread through giving or receiving oral sex" DR HOOK
you want knowledge? read the forum !
Are there any links to sites that support that I'm not at risk. Not that I doubt any of your opinions, I just want to educate myself as much as possible so I can protect myself. Thanks.
You didn't have a risk at all. NO RISK.
did you have unprotected sex? NO
did you share iv drug works? NOT MENTIONED
no reason to test.
I appreciate all the replies, I do feel better. However this morning I did speak with a private counselor at a clinic and I described the same incidents and she said my risk is not as high, I am at risk and should be tested to be on the safe side. I completely understand that my risk is low and I believe people who are sexually active should be tested regardless (although I've never once had unprotected intercourse), I guess I'm just trying to decipher if I am at NO risk or at LOW risk or if this is just semantics and really mean the same thing essentially.
You don't have a reason to test. You do not have an HIV concern.
Thanks. Everyone is pressuring me to get tested ASAP just to be on the safe side but I'm terrified of the results even though I have never had unprotected intercourse. I just don't want to feel rushed or pressured to get tested, I want to go when I'm ready, you know?
nothing...NOT ONE THING...that you have described put you at risk for contracting hiv.