Condom slip off at withdrawal hiv negative 2,3 and 6 months conclusive

[gouworried]

Thanks for ur great service. I am a male 32 years from India. I had an csw exposure at Nepal on 30 dec 2013. I kissed the girl for 5 sec and had verginal sex with condom for 2-3 min. After ejaculation I stayed in her for 20 sec and during withdraw condom slip completely and hanging at her vegina. This was my first and last mistake outside my marriage life. I was under high guilt to cheat my wife. I suffered from weakness and fatigue since 1 week of exposure, vitrigo as well. Paranoid about HIV. I tested for HIV at 9.5 week and 91 days HIV 4 generation hiv1/2 antibody and p 24 antigen. Both were negative. After that I had sex with my wife. She has as well symptoms like mine... Vitrigo, weakness, fatigue, ance on face. After 3 months of csw exposure both of use developer small white pimples on penis and wife's labia. I had reoccurrence 3 times in next one month. Those get healed in 4-5 days after each outbreak. But have no pain, itching. Since 1 month after healing I had no outbreak. During my outbreaks I had burning sensation on lips, face and hands also swollen lymph neck. Swollen nodes present at arm,chest,back and neck. i consult with 3 different doctors all diagnosed by touching the lumps as fibroma. As i was on stress so tested once again at 6 month, hiv tridot test which came back negative. Syphilis negative, herpes 1&2 Igg positive. Please assess my risk
1. Are my HIV tests are conclusive.
am i hiv free.
2. Are those lump could be fibroma or swollen glands...

[gouworried]

We both r negative. our test prove that. donot worry go ahead in life. i learnt my lession. I hope my symptoms are related to herpes only.

[woden]

commercial sex worker. I was intoxicated but did remember using condom. My doubt is what if condom broke or what if it fell off early. Since i do not remember exactly what happened i went through series of panic attacks. our mind is powerful. Will play tricks with us. Even now I panic. Thats because the doctor told me that the seventh week result were enough. Especially because its low risk.

[gouworried]

Thanks woden. i know my results are conclusive, but anxious due to the swollen nodes. doc said those are fibroma, all 3 doc confirmed. thanks for ur reply. what was ur exposure...

[woden]

Herpes is a viral infection. And it would cause swollen glands. Herpes is somewhat common and it is not life threatening. Please ensure you disclose the status of herpes to the doctor( anyway the doctors would run through all these tests if your wife is pregnant) if you are gonna have a baby in the future.If you have herpes it doesn't meant your child would also get it. So do not feel embarrassed. Enjoy your life. Don't waste it worrying about it.

[woden]

hiv results at 3 months is conclusive. Do not worry. I took my result at seventh week. Counsellor told me that no need for extra test. you do not have to worry about six month negative at all. Enjoy your life buddy, even i'm suffering from anxiety issues. Stop looking for symptoms. Anxiety will cause stress and stress would cause stuffs like rashes. Don't make that ruin your peace. Six month negative is more than conclusive. Forget about the incident, i know it can affect you mentally( as i am going through it but i  have learnt to breathe through it). Go on a vacation with your wife now, will help you out.