My mother-in-law,82, living in an ACLF (should be in nursing home but we've tried to keep her out of that!) has CHF,and all assoc. with it. She uses O2 nightly and PRN, and a myriad of medications. She has ALL the CHF symptoms, +++++, and severe depression, apathy. The fatigue and weakness (she can't even walk because we believe she didn't get proper PT), has really taken a toll on her attidute, etc..
My husband and I (57 & 59) have taken care of her and her husband (before he died 6 yrs. ago) for over 15 years. We are exhausted and have our own chronic health problems, and we can't lift/move her anymore. Her other son and daughter (who she really had fun with, etc.) lives near Denver (5,000ft.+/-?). And we would like her to move there before she dies, so she and her daughter, especially, can try to have a relationship. But when we brought it up, they said stuff about the altitude not being good for her - I know it wouldn't be best but they're using EXCUSES because they don't want their lives to be disrupted.
I found out that hot, humid weather was bad for her condition, also!! So, PLEASE, tell us the effects of higher altitude vs. super high humidity in Ft. Lauderdale, & the hurricanes, tornadoes, high crime, not many good drs. in her HMO; not to mention the high costs of housing(especially w/o ABUSE). And, my husband's heart and his attitude/depression is overwhelming him because of all her needs.
I really pray that she will be able to move there and enjoy the very little time (it's believed) she has left. So we can't see how it could hurt her any worse than what she is going through now. Thank you so much for this service and for your help!!! You are wonderful.
rsweg