Fetish for chest compressions

[yangchengmeong]

hi there. im 25 y/o. my boyfriend has a fetish for chest compressions. he told me that compressing my chest like cpr arouses him and gives him a better mood for an intercourse.he wanted to make my heart beat strong so that he could feel it on his palms. before we start our thing. he would make me lie on my back on the floor and then he will start compressing my chest as of doing a cpr. he would make i think 30 compressions then pause to allow me to breathe and then continue to do it for 3-4 times. i could feel his palms touching on my heart. i allowed him to do that because its doesn't affect me at all. we are doing it for i think 3months now. will there be any problem that would arise from that if we continue to do that. is it safe to perform cpr on a beating heart.

[Mom2four85]

I think anything is possible and some people have sexual problems and need stimulation such as is described for arousal - it's a control issue and the excitement the other person is getting from the adrenaline rush from doing this.

This is seen in suffocation, bondage etc - I'm trying to think of all the things I've read people do to get their "high" when their sexual performance isn't so great and want it heightened instead of just being happy with what they have and who they are.

We should feel sympathy for the original poster because as I posted previously, he/she (I think male though) feels like they need this other person so much they allow them to harm them; really it's no different than a person inflicting emotional or physical abuse :(

[Janpes]

unfortunatly in todays day and age anything is possible. We shouldn't dismiss what we don't understand and we shouldn't accept what is quite clearly wrong.

[Ihatepalps2]

I think we were taken in by the post. I dont think its real. Nobody would be that sick, would they?

[Ihatepalps2]

YOU PEOPLE ARE SICK. YOU ARE SICK FOR ALLOWING IT, AND YOUR BOYFRIEND, WELL, HE IS ONE SCARY PERSON.

[bbxx]

Wishing you well. Please listen to Cindy. She knows her stuff. Let us know how you are.

[cindy707]

My main concern is more of a structural issue with your body yang....i understand that you are having issues w. the rhythm of your heart but the main thing to do is to seek assistance by a medical professional with this.  The thing is that he may have damaged your ribs or worse your xiphold process which could cause an awful lot of damage to your body.  If there is a fracture or any of your internal organs were damaged by the foreplay that your boyfriend employed you could be a timebomb waiting to go off.  I would head to an emergency room...be completely honest with the doctor and tell him/her what has occured over a specific time frame and let them run some x-rays and listen to your heart.  Medically speaking cardiac problems could be an issue and heart attacks are caused by a blockage of the 02 and/or bloodflow into the heart and with what he was doing is a possiblity...DO NOT WAIT....go get checked out yang....seriously your life could depend on the decisons that you make today....good luck and please let us know what happens after you have seen the doctor and Godspeed to you and from now on just say NO to your boyfriend...he is risking your life for a thrill...............