Fetish for chest compressions

[yangchengmeong]

hi there. im 25 y/o. my boyfriend has a fetish for chest compressions. he told me that compressing my chest like cpr arouses him and gives him a better mood for an intercourse.he wanted to make my heart beat strong so that he could feel it on his palms. before we start our thing. he would make me lie on my back on the floor and then he will start compressing my chest as of doing a cpr. he would make i think 30 compressions then pause to allow me to breathe and then continue to do it for 3-4 times. i could feel his palms touching on my heart. i allowed him to do that because its doesn't affect me at all. we are doing it for i think 3months now. will there be any problem that would arise from that if we continue to do that. is it safe to perform cpr on a beating heart.

[Janpes]

I'm sorry but this guy sounds like a freak or even something worse. Sounds like he likes the power to hold your life in his hands. If your heart does stop in the process, do you think he will hang around to bring you back? As from reading your post I think not!

Get rid of him now before it is too late.

[yarrow]

I'm serious:  Dump him.  This guy has a 'your life in my hands thing' that isn't going to end well for any woman involved with him.

[yarrow]

Yikes!  Oh, yikes!

Here's what medline plus and the National Institutes of Health have to say about giving chest compressions to a normally beating heart:

"DO NOT * If the person has normal breathing, coughing, or movement, DO NOT begin chest compressions. Doing so may cause the heart to stop beating."
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000013.htm

Jeez.  Find a new, not-weird boyfriend.

[bbxx]

I am pretty sure he can kill you by doing this. Everything I looked up said in a beating heart, cpr can actually STOP it. You need to stop this now!