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Could it not be herpes?
Hi. I'm a 22 year old female. I have had only 4 sexual partners in my life, all of which have been long term relationships. I have always been very careful, using protection and asking about past history before doing anything physical. I have yearly pap tests and have always been std free. I have now been with my current boyfriend(fiance) for almost two years. We are monogamous and were both tested and free of stds at the beginning of our relationship, and I've also had pap tests done since then. Last month I had a bad yeast infection that was followed by really tiny sores on my perineum. I went to the doctor(female) and she looked and said I had nothing to worry about. I was still paranoid so went to the walkin clinic the following week. The sores were already gone, they only lasted about 2-3 days, they were not painful, not itchy, didn't scab over, no discharge, nothing. The nurse practitioner that I talked to at the clinic said I had nothing to worry about but I got blood tests done anyway. I have not gotten these results back yet but my boyfriend had blood work done about a week before and his came back normal, no indication of any antibodies or anything and he's also never had any type of sore or infection on his genitals. Now a month later these tiny sores have come back, I went to emergency at the hospital and the doctor(male) couldn't even see them, I had to point them out. He was not a very nice man but said they may be herpes. I understand that this infection can be dormant but if I am infected it would have had to been a long time ago and I also understand that women are more likely to show symptoms shortly after being exposed. So since my timeline does not fit together and my fiancé whom I've been having unprotected sex with for two years shows no signs in his blood work, how could this be herpes? And if it isn't, what is it?
also make sure that they are properly testing you for bv too - it doesn't always present with obvious symptoms and can make herpes more active.
go and be seen every single time you have symptoms to try to get better answers. It's a pain I know but it's the best thing to do.
Hello again. I am unfortunately going through my third outbreak, it has been one every month for the past three months now. Luckily they only come in one or two extremely small sores and don't last long, can't even see them without looking really hard. I'm having a very hard time accepting everything, and my bf and I are still waiting for his blood results. The NP told me that the average for first year breakouts is 4-6. I'm still confused how I've could have even gotten this, not that it matters anymore, but is this going to reoccur every month!? Every month they seem to come at some point the week before my period, even tho I'm on bc and therefore don't go through the same hormonal changes that a woman not on the pill does right? I'm sorry, like I said, I'm having a hard time with everything.
they could be. him getting tested is the best way to find out if he has it or not.
I just found out yesterday that my culture swab came back positive for type 2, and that my boyfriend actually never did get a blood test for herpes like he was led to believe. I know it's pretty much impossible to find out where this came from, just really hard to accept. Now my bf and I have been talking and I understand that these rashes can appear anywhere around the genital area, and he has had blister type rashes on on his pelvic area and lower abdomen but when he got the ones on his lower abdomen looked at the NP said it was just something from the laundry detergent, even tho we have been using the same kind for a very long time. So I guess my question is that could these be herpes on him and we just never thought anything of it cause it never actually showed up right on his penis? He is still going to get blood work done even though we know it will only show antibodies. He's now thinking that he was the one that gave them to me if what these blister type rashes are is herpes?
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
