Thanks you for your feed back
Hi, testing 3 months post exposure would confirm if you contracted herpes from him but your symptoms donot appear at all herpes related, First time symptoms like fever and bodyaches should no last longer than a week or 2. And contracting herpes from a one time affair where he did not have any genital sores would be close to zero.
Since your sexually active do take the herpes test for the protection of future partners.