Takes much more than simple kissing to contract herpes even if she had a lip sore. Takes rubbing contact to force the virus into a nerve and bumps are not herpes.
Okay thank you! This morning I noticed a numb above my upper lip? Do you think it's related?
I highly doubt the scar on her cheek was hsv related. Your chances of contracting the virus with no sores present are close to zero. I wouldn't worry over this at all.