I just started dating a man with whom I have great chemistry with. I can see myself falling in love with him in the future, however we are only one month in. I rarely get this excited about a man, which makes this particularly difficult for me to deal with. On our last date he very openly told me he has herpes. He explained what it was and that even with condoms, I am at risk if we have a sexual relationship. He told me he hasn't had an outbreak in two years and does not take daily medication for it. He recommended that I speak with my doctor and seek government funded websites for additional information. The fact that he told me this, so openly, speaks volumes of his character. I understand it's a common virus and I realize that I haven't always been 100% safe in sexual relationships in my past- but I was lucky and did not contract this virus. I DO NOT WANT HERPES! Is there anyway I can have a sexual relationship with him? For now, since we are so new, I've taken sex off the table as an option and decided to continue to get to know him. But I'm scared. And worried. And disappointed. Any advice?