Irritation, black spots and a little tiredness

[concernedkay10]

Hi,

I have a concern. I have been talking to a girl for a while now and we met on 19th may(5days ago). We did not have sex. we made out a little bit which included kissing, boobs and fingering her. Apart from that no oral neither did she do it to me nor did i do it to her. She didn't want to have sex. Neither did she allow me to undress her pants. After a lot of time I fingered her by putting the hand through the pants which she didn't stop.

But since yesterday I have been having a little itch randomly at the tip of my penis and today I had to pee quite a number of times. I feel a little tired and I just noticed I see 2 black spots under my testicles (not sure if I had these for a while)

These are things happening:
1. A little itch at the tip of the penis (once in a while)
2. Tiredness
3. Black spots under the testicles
4. Random watery eye

i don't know if she had anything. I am a little worried. Can you tell me if I got something. I was being safe had condoms if I needed one.

Thanks in advance.

[concernedkay10]

I noticed these inside my mouth today..

https://ibb.co/fyt77d

Any idea what these could be? They aren't itchy or painful.. how ever my inner side of the mouth is a little sensitive especially where the gums and teeth connect.

[TooHip1973]

Doesn’t sound like herpes.  It sounds like absolutely no contact happened with your penis. Therefore, HSV is not because of your issues down below.

[concernedkay10]

Thanks for the reply. The only contact was I removed touching my penis l.. I don't remember after how long..

Now I have a new thing that started .. severe back pain and mild pain in the head which isn't that thobbing and a little pain behind the eye which was watery .

I really want to ask the girl if she has any medical history. not sure how do I ask her about it.

[concernedkay10]

I know I am just being too paranoid.. just the anxiety that is killing me

[concernedkay10]

I meant I remember** touching my penis

[TooHip1973]

Your penis didn’t come in contact with her vagina or mouth. You didn’t get herpes from this encounter. Anxiety is really getting the better of you.
The best way to ask about her std history is be straight up. Tell her you don’t mean to sound paranoid but you just want to check with her.

[concernedkay10]

I checked with here.. she said she doesn't have anything...

But I noticed these inside my mouth today..

https://ibb.co/fyt77d

Any idea what these could be? They aren't itchy or painful.. how ever my inner side of the mouth is a little sensitive especially where the gums and teeth connect.