Hello everyone!
I am very curious about a particular form of pain I have and whether it might be herpes-related. It began about six years ago. I have never had any traditional herpes symptoms - i.e. cuts or blisters, but occasionally I get 'flashes' of pain in different areas of my vulva. These last for about a second, but happen quite randomly (i.e.may happen on random days for one to two months). I have recently been diagnosed with chronic thrush and have vulvodynia caused by this - but this pain began long before I had the thrush! The reason I wonder if it is herpes is that I believe a boyfriend once performed oral sex on me with a cold sore. I have asked doctors about this and they seem reluctant to peg it on herpes!
What a wonderful and supportive community you have here - Jane