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I am a very young adult living in an area were we get travellers and a lot of people coming and going meaning i have sex quite a bit.
i recently have been getting drunk a lot as a lot of my friends are turning 18-21 and ive been pretty reckless with my acts.
Within a 3 week period i had 4 sexual partners, the first one was just oral but i noticed a lump on her lip the next morning but nothing stood out to make me worry other then that. The second time i had sex with a girl i met at a party and as we went to do it, 5mins into the sex, the condom broke, so i instantly stopped and we went back to the party.
2 days after that i noticed some small red dots (lumps) on my foreskin and tip of my penis and instantly got worried.
i saw my doc and he tested me for std's and herpes. That weekend i decided to go out with a big group of friends and i really just wanted to forget about the entire thing so as i do i thought drinking an entire bottle of vodka and having a carton of beer would do the job, as it turns out i ended up going back to one of my best friends house (which is a girl) and having sex with her as well as one of her friends. i was too drunk to even remember and i wouldnt imagine me using protection as i didnt think i would have sex until everything is sorted out.3 days after that i see my doctor and he tells me positively that all my tests are negative, i then went on to tell him it has gotten worse. by this point i have had what looks to be like blisters and quite alot of pain when i urinate and masturbate. He looks at it and tells me hes almost certain that its herpies and he gives me 3 boxes of Famvir and asks if i can come back in 3 days to see if theres any improvement
Should i be extremely worried as to my future (sex life and all)
im extremely stressed with study and family issues right now as well as this
any information that isnt on google ( i have already searched and read over 50 websites) would be much appreciated as to how people have sex while carrying herpes as well as what eases pain that preferably isnt drugs
Thanyou
i recently have been getting drunk a lot as a lot of my friends are turning 18-21 and ive been pretty reckless with my acts.
Within a 3 week period i had 4 sexual partners, the first one was just oral but i noticed a lump on her lip the next morning but nothing stood out to make me worry other then that. The second time i had sex with a girl i met at a party and as we went to do it, 5mins into the sex, the condom broke, so i instantly stopped and we went back to the party.
2 days after that i noticed some small red dots (lumps) on my foreskin and tip of my penis and instantly got worried.
i saw my doc and he tested me for std's and herpes. That weekend i decided to go out with a big group of friends and i really just wanted to forget about the entire thing so as i do i thought drinking an entire bottle of vodka and having a carton of beer would do the job, as it turns out i ended up going back to one of my best friends house (which is a girl) and having sex with her as well as one of her friends. i was too drunk to even remember and i wouldnt imagine me using protection as i didnt think i would have sex until everything is sorted out.3 days after that i see my doctor and he tells me positively that all my tests are negative, i then went on to tell him it has gotten worse. by this point i have had what looks to be like blisters and quite alot of pain when i urinate and masturbate. He looks at it and tells me hes almost certain that its herpies and he gives me 3 boxes of Famvir and asks if i can come back in 3 days to see if theres any improvement
Should i be extremely worried as to my future (sex life and all)
im extremely stressed with study and family issues right now as well as this
any information that isnt on google ( i have already searched and read over 50 websites) would be much appreciated as to how people have sex while carrying herpes as well as what eases pain that preferably isnt drugs
Thanyou
your regular doctor can start the gardasil series for you.
always have protected sex - both oral and genital/anal!!! follow up on your testing at the proper times so that it's accurate.
always have protected sex - both oral and genital/anal!!! follow up on your testing at the proper times so that it's accurate.
yeah all my tests came back negative and then my doc gave me famvir which helps clear up the symptoms of herpies thats kind of why im freaking out.
I havnt had the shot series yet, how would i be able to get them if you know.
Mathdaddy
I havnt had the shot series yet, how would i be able to get them if you know.
Mathdaddy
you tested for std's too early from the sounds of things. wait until the last time you had sex and after 1 week test for gonorrhea, chlamydia, trich and ngu. you have to wait at least 6 weeks for syphilis testing. you have to wait 3 months for herpes, hiv and hepatitis testing.
have you had your gardasil shot series yet for hpv?
grace
have you had your gardasil shot series yet for hpv?
grace
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
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Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
