I'm a 48 yr. old woman. I began a relationship seven months ago after many years of being alone. My (ex-)boyfriend (age 59) is extremely concerned with health, with disease prevention, and, as it turned out, with STDs. He is a practicing cardiologist in Canada. I believed I did not have any STDs. I was certain I did not. He insisted I have a blood test for STDs including genital herpes and it turned out that I do have herpes 2. Based on past relationships, I must have had this for somewhere between 14 and 28 years. My boyfriend was not able to handle this. He ended the relationship. We parted well, telling each other that we loved the other and wished the other well. I have no relationship and now this knowledge that, as far as I'm concerned, I never needed to know. I haven't been reading this forum and this has probably been asked, but, plainly, I want to know, is it worth throwing away what we both agreed was the love of our lives over genital herpes? A friend of mine who also has this condition says it's nothing, it's a "non-issue." Can reasonable minds disagree about this?