My boyfriend currently has a cold sore and we were fooling around (not kissing) and he kept trying to finger me. I was pushing his hand/arm away and telling him to go wash his hands because I always see him touching his mouth/cold sore. He overpowered me and started fingering me. He then spit in his hand and used it as lube even though I told him no. Anyway... I am worried sick that I'm going to get HSV-1 genital herpes from this. I have gotten a cold sore before, I got my first one when I was 5 years old, so I know that I have the cold sore virus. It has been a few days and I now have a yeast infection, am itching really bad, and have a few small lacerations. I went to the gynecologist and she took a culture (haven't gotten the results back yet), but she said the lacerations didn't look like herpes, but even if he did give me genital HSV-1 herpes, I wouldn't know for probably a few weeks or when I have an outbreak. My stress level is through the roof. I am just absolutely sick that he did that knowing that he had a cold sore and when I was pushing him away and telling him no and to go wash his hands. Anyway... what is the probably that I will have HSV-1 genital herpes? The nurse practitioner at my gynecologist's office said there's a very high risk of getting it from being fingered if he had a cold sore and that she's even seen several people give themselves HSV-1 genital herpes because they had a cold sore and then touched their genitals.