How are cold sores spread?

[AnxiousDude4]

Hello, I hope I can get some clarification on a concern of mine.
About 2 days ago, I was out with a group of friends, were hanging out and drinking a bit. A friend of friend of mine got a little wasted and got touchy with me and kept kissing my neck, she wanted things to move forward but I didn't...fast forward to later that night, my friend tells me to watch out because "that girl has oral herpes", needless to say I was a bit thrown off and immediately worried about whether or not this can be contagious. After some research, I got answers both for yes and for no....so, i'm a bit confused. I'd there any chance I can get the virus from what she did, she did not have any lesions present, only kissed my neck a couple of times, only once did she suck a bit.
I appreciate you reading this and any response. Thank you.

[CurseLord]

The chances are low but remember even without lesions there will be a risk of transmission, since I got it from someone without lesions. So do check if you have any symptoms within this week, if no then you did not have it.

[AnxiousDude4]

Thank you much :)

[CurfewX]

It is highly unlikely without an active outbreak.  Your dating life is going to be extraordinarily difficult of you worry excessively about oral HSV-1, given that it's estimated that 67% of the population has it.  

Don't kiss anyone with an active outbreak, and your chances of contracting it will remain low.

[AnxiousDude4]

Thank you so much. The subsequent response is part of the reason why it's so confusing. I read the update herpes handbook from west over heights and must say i'm feeling better about this. Does not seem like there's any reason for me to worry. Again, I appreciate your time and reply. Thank you.