dear grace please help

[cassamally]

I plan to have a blood test for herpes once for all.

my exposures is several protected oral and protected vaginal sex with CSWs in London.  Latest was Unprotected oral for 10 minutes and protected vaginal sex.  I did unprotected cunnilingus and french kiss on all of the CSWs.  I am ashamed and decided to stop with this life forever and ever.

I contacted FreedomHealth UK (Dr Garcia Jose Gonzalez clinic and Dr Sean Cummings clinic).  They said the Herpes test is conclusive after 12 weeks.  They offer Type Specific Testing.

I was wondering whether I should test at 12 weeks or should I wait more to test?

I want to clear all and get married and settle down and have a family.  I really am ashamed.  I hope you will help me.  

[cassamally]

sorry ;(

I was just confused a bit and had lots of apprehensions.  I am really sorry to make you angry.  I had written so much and thought perhaps you also got confused.

Yes I take it that 12 weeks testing with Dr Garcia Gonsalez will be good and conclusive.  I will move on then.

Thank you Grace.  Sorry once again ;(

[gracefromHHP]

please don't ask me to repeat myself when I have already answered.

[cassamally]

Thank you for your help.  Just to cleat the confusion.

You mean 12 WEEKS is good to test and move on forever if it is negative Grace?  (No symptoms at all by the way!!)

If yes I will call Dr Sean Cummings or Dr Jose Garcia Gonsalez and book appointment ASAP.

Just confirm this please.  I am a bit relieved.

[gracefromHHP]

yes testing at that point is fine.

grace

[cassamally]

I am planning to go for the test at 12 weeks and move on.. I just want your thoughts on it.. I hope you will help

Dr Jose at FreedomHealth Clinic in UK here said 12 weeks is conclusive and I can move on and settle down then.  I just want your support please

[cassamally]

What I want to know is whether a test at 12 weeks or one at 16 weeks will be conclusive?  The doctors at Freedom Health said 12 weeks is reliable.

I want to be sure once for all.  please help


I can take the test only once because it costs a lot and I want to be able to move on forever.  I love someone and have vowed never to betray her.  Trust me grace I am really ashamed.  I am crying everyday for hours.  I am still a student in a foreign country here and I happened to party too much.  I stopped everything.  No drinks, no cigarette! I want to clean myself and lead a great life.  I want to protect my future partner and want to have the test at Freedom Health UK (the most reputable STD clinic in London). Please advise me when to test once for all.  

I pray hard everyday.  I want to redeem myself.  I am crying while writing this.  You are the best help I can get.