I'm 19, and I'm worried that there is something seriously wrong with my kidneys. Ever since age 15 or so, I've been getting UTIs, about a few times a year I get them but as I get older, it tends to be becoming more frequent, and severe, and often spreads to my kidneys, I've had to be hospitalized 3 times for this, and I just dont feel right. Their almost always around the time of my period Ive noticed, and I'm sure that things like sex, not wiping properly ect are not the cause because I've been very dilligent in taking care of myself and searching for causes since the first infection. I also have many other weird symptoms that have increasingly with time, become worse. I feel like a grandma because I'm so fatigued all the time and weak. My appetite is low, my energy is non-existant, I still often feel that UTI "feeling" in my crotch even after finishing antibiotics, I've had a ton of issues with my stomach and intestinal tract which are also undiagnosed, and I often get pains in my left side mostly(when i get an infection pain always starts on the left as well) just out of nowhere. I also cant be hugged hard anymore, I feel so tender everywhere most of the time, and I can barely drink alcohol, I start getting back pains and pain peeing before the night is over-with, and a day or two afterward I usually feel my kidneys arent working properly. I just feel ill, and I want my life back