I have been to the gyno and tested for every STD out there, including HIV, all neg. I was diagnosed with breast cancer on 03/30/10 and have had both breast removed. This was followed by chemo which put me into menopause.I have been done with the treatments for about 4 months, but I haven't had a menstral cycle for about 6 months, I have severe hot flashes, im tired , have trouble sleeping at times, weight gain of 12 lbs in 6 months, also dry skin, and fricken facial hair! all over my face like peach fuzz but worse, this makes me very self conscious, I try to not get close enough to anyone so they will not see this, I think I may need to get it permanently removed. I have so much discharge, that I wonder if its urine leakage, it is very embarrasing as my pubic hairs are glued together most of the time from this stuff. I also have lower back pain, joint pain, and mild menstral-type cramping. Sometimes the discharge looks to be slightly blood-tinged. I am hoping my menstral will return and this menopause is temporary...I also have a problem with dryness when I should be getting sexually aroused, although its so sloppy wet most of the time that we don't have to use lube. I still have a very good sex drive and I am in a four year committed relationship. I am trying to stay positive, but all these things are a problem. I used to be a very attractive woman, but loosing all my hair, and breasts along with all these other things is really taking a toll on me.