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HI! I got married 3 months back but I havnt had been able to have intercourse yet. My husband loves me but he avoidd love making. We have sex once in a month. He hardky gets aroused. Even though he seems to be aroused when he wakes up but he still doesnt want to have sex. He is a porn addict. He cannot reach orgasm when we have sex most of the time. We both had sex for the first time after marriage i.e 3 months. In all these three months we had sex hardly 10 times. And he could ejaculate only two times.What is the reason he avoids having sex? is it because he watches toouch porn. Please help!
Is there any way I can block the websites he watches them on? All such websites are already blocked in the country we are in. But he still manages to open all those webs.
He watches it secretly but I have caught him watching twice.And I know that he watches at work too because i check his browser history. If I try tell him that this is something wrong and ypu should not do, we end up fighting. I dont know how to deal with thesituation.
Not all men watch porn, but it is very tempting and very accessible on the Internet. One would think that a live person/real thing/wife would be so much more interesting. I've never understood the attraction to lesbian porn for some men. Counseling would be in order for him, but he has to see that there is a problem. It would also be good for you to help you deal with this intrusion. It is disturbing to me that he openly views porn both at work and at home without needing privacy.
This is what porno addict will say to counter argue. It will be a wise decesion to see a psychiatrist, sex therapyst or urologist.The answer he gives suggest that he needs consultation with psychiatrist.Your personal efforts to convince him may result in conflicts.You are facing a difficult problem. Wish you best of luck...
I dont know about porn types but i have seen him watching lesbian porn. Is it impossible to make him stop watching porn? I really feel like seeing a psychiatrist at times. This is so disturbing.
Diverting the porn addict's attention can be difficult. It might help to know what kind(s) of porn your husband is watching. Often porn is geared toward certain interests or fetishes that you both could do together if it was not too weird. A man's ultimate sexual pleasure is to ejaculate, so it would seem that he would want to ejaculate to his porn somewhere during the day.
thanks for your reply and suggestions. Is there any way that can divert men's attention towards real sex instead of porn?
p.s I never found him ejaculating while watching porn. He watches it at work too that surely means he does not ejaculate there infront of everyone.
p.s I never found him ejaculating while watching porn. He watches it at work too that surely means he does not ejaculate there infront of everyone.
After your husband ejaculates from masturbating to porn, he has used up most of his sexual energy, so when dealing with the real thing (you), he can't deliver. This is especially true with one who is a porn addict, as you describe him, since he would be masturbating excessively. The problem is to convince him to slow down the use of porn or curtail it altogether. I believe he would then have more enjoyable sex and a better marriage, but the challenge is to change his mind and behavior.
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