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Losing erection at climax

My fiance doesn't have a problem getting an erection but when he gets to the point during sex that he is ready to climax ( get off) he loses his erection and can't get off. What can be causing this to happen? I need to know what we can do to stop this from happening during sex?
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This is a form of erectile dysfunction. He is probably looking at himself at the time and has got into a situation of self-fulfilling prophesy. You need to take intercourse off the menu for a while  to break this cycle. No performance no anxiety. You take charge, he does nothing.
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when one gets over excited, his respiration becomes faster and he gets premature ejaculation. During intercourse, he should breath slow, deep and even( even means, inhalation and exhalation are equal) to do better breathing let him learn abdominal breathing. Googe it.Practice this breathing for 10 minutes twice a day. Then use this breathing while doing intercourse.  He can sustain his erection till you orgasm. Breathing controls the mind and mind controls the body.
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