Ok, I will be brief but try to explain as detailed as possible. I need help with this. I'm a 31yr old male and recently stopped drinking over 60 days ago. I'm athletic, and in excellent health. 5'11 and 200 pounds, 10% bodyfat, and just started back in the gym doing cardio after a 4 month exit from training. So you'd think I would be just fine in the sex category. .
I'm having issues with not only erectile dysfunction, but libido, and just overall sex drive. I was married for 5 years, got divorced a year ago, and since then I have had a lot of sexual partners but I've realized that I was intoxicated for the most part during all of the times I had sex. Well, now, I have cleaned up my act and have a wonderful woman who I know I'll spend the rest of my life with. I am sober, feel great, but I'm having problems with the one thing I need most: SEX! I am not in the mood a lot, and have problems getting it up. I don't understand this. I think it's a lot of mental stuff, I constantly wonder about performance, getting a hard on, etc and I think I psych myself up and ruin it. I have just realized that for the most part I haven't had a normal sexual relationship, really ever. Even married I was usually drinking a lot. And now being sober, I think a lot more and get worried I'm not going to perform to my ability, it's stupid I guess.
I'm currently taking Wellbutrin for my anxiety/panic attacks. Also take Celexa daily. This has seemed to help, but it isn't doing the job. Having a gorgeous perfect 10 naked woman in your bed and not getting a hard on....something is WRONG with me. I know my natural testosterone is out of whack as I've taken steroids in the past but before you prejudge, realize that I've done it in a responsible way. I think my natural test may be down. I'm considering having blood work done to get my test levels checked. I might even jump back on a legal doctors prescription of weekly test shots if necessary.
I'm considering going to GNC to buy Extenze, New Vigor, or Libido Max, as they have natural ingredients helping blood flow and libido, etc.
I need help. This has to end. I have got to do something about this. I cannot live my life like this. I deserve better and I want to live a normal life with a normal sex life. Thanks. Feel free to ask other questions please.