susan...i suggest you go somewhere else

[GMB08]

i suggest you go somewhere else to get your question answered.....we here at med help are ttc.....after trial and tribulations.....no one will be happy about you question pertaining to your abortion....

[steph9803]

Babybaw4- People amaze me sometimes. They have no reguard for other peoples feelings. This is supposed to be a haven for support, not to deal with people like that.

[Babybaw4]

I was just reading the posts and do agree I am really emotional right now and going through my 2md miscarriage in 3-months and would do anything to keep pregnant but my body doesnt seem to let me. And someone so insensasitive would consider posting something like that and how we on this forum seek help on triumphs and what we go through. I just wanted to agree with you all and I enjoy these forums many answers I do get help me out and for someone to come on seeking advice on abortion, you got to be kidding me..

[steph9803]

I'm usually one of the first ones on in the mornings. So if I see one I try to report to save everyone from having to see it. Some people are just so sick and twisted! Some of them are so sick that it almost has to be made up to cause a stir....

[lynsey81]

Gosh!  I never saw yesterdays, probably a good thing that i didnt!

[steph9803]

This was from a different one yesterday! That's why I was so mad to see another one today! They took that one off yesterday after a few minutes.

[mikaleen]

I guess I missed doozie.  Sometimes people even just come on here to aggravate or upset everyone because they have nothing better to do.

[lynsey81]

stupid teenagers...that wouldnt make me as annoyed.

but yes that post did make me angry, i completely see and agree with you.  she should have known better, as an adult with children already, she should know all about contraception etc.  yes i fell pregnant by accident but i knew straight away, i would have had that baby and my other half felt the same, only to then go and m/c.  we would have loved it so much.

and yes to admit to cheating on top of it all...i was flabbergasted.  id never dream of doing that to my other half, and half the time he isnt here.  the only reason she doesnt want to keep that darling baby is because she doesnt know who the father could be, well its all wrong,just because she wouldnt want to have to admit it and face it all head on with her husband...that is her own stupid fault, not that poor babies.  grr i am so glad i dont know that woman!!!

[ArmyPrincess819]

Gmb- I'm sorry you had to read it. I read it and Steph asked me to read it and report it. I don't know why it took as long as it did but I'm sure that medhelp has alot going on with so many forums. You know you can always let me know and I can email Medhelp right away. Sometimes you gotta just shake your head at how ignorant people can really be adn like Bam said it may have been a teenager. None the less it should not be tolerated but it happens. I myself would be humiliated dumping my deepest secrets to a forum full of grieving women. I guess different strokes for different folks. Like they say there is always one in every crowd....
Big hugs,
AP

[bam1014]

You would be surprised by some of the insensitive posts that have gotten on here.  There is usually at least one a month.  But usually they come from stupid teenagers - I think I find it even more offensive coming from an adult, who should KNOW better, and to admit cheating on your DH on top of it all - disgusting!

[lynsey81]

i think they have taken it off, i wrote a few responses to it and now it isnt there.  it made me really angry.  i noticed though they didnt reply to what any of us ladies had written on there.  either they got the message or it was some sick idiot posting it as a weird wind up, surely nobody could be that silly to post something like that on here?

[steph9803]

I just wrote her a reply then reported it as abuse. What idiots!!!