I NEED ANSWERS

[IZA09]

I was told that I had a miscarriage and still can't believe it. Is their any possible way that the doctor was wrong? I need to know how is it possible to have one successful pregnancy and lose my second child. I feel so helpless and like no one understands me!!!!

[everly1]

I sympathize with your situation! Yes, they could always be wrong. What was your diagnosis of miscarriage based on? If it were declining hcg level I'm afraid they are most likely right. However if it were based on ultrasound or hcg level not rising the way they feel they should they could be wrong. I conceived Jan 26th and on Feb 19th I was told I was miscarrying based on slow rising hcg level. Then on Feb 24th I went into ER with right side pain and was told I was having a tubal pregnancy and taken into surgery. I was woke up to the doctor explaining that he was wrong and that I had an ovarian cyst where they thought I was having a tubal pregnancy and I was in fact still pregnant. More recently on March 17th I was back in ER with right side pain and was told the size of the pregnancy had decreased since my previous sono on the 12th and that I had miscarried. My hcg level is 56,000. I declined to have a D and C to remove the pregnancy as I want to wait and see that my hcg levels drop basically due to everything I've been through already I'm just not sure I believe them yet. It's hard to think that after 3 healthy pregnancies that this could happen, it's just not something that I'm prepared to deal with. When I woke up from surgery to hear I was still pregnant I thought it was a miracle, I just can't give up yet!

[neli2013]

I understand wat you goin..thru i had the samething happen to me..how far along were you?