is it me?

[AshleyAnn7911]

After years of being told it would take a long time for me to get pregnant. and that if i ever did get pregnant i wouldnt be able to carry my baby to full term. i got pregnant, and not even 12 weeks later lost my very first baby. my boyfriend is still here for me and planned to stay with me so i am lucky for that. he has two very healthy sons, so i dont think that losing the baby had as much of an effect on him. his family also told me that i cry to much over losing my baby. it just happened on july 6th and i had to get a d&c done on july 13th. has it been too long? Can i still cry over my first baby. why is it so painful :(and were my doctors right. my cervix is high and uterus is tilted. does that mean anything? Please help

[AshleyAnn7911]

Thank all of you. and yes ive been told since i was in the 8th grade. i was 13 that i would have problems. i have a reoccurring cist that is the size of a grape fruit. and with that pregnancy i was upset with myself. i was on birth control " lo-ovral" which is supposed to be the strongest pill you can get. i ended up with tobsillitus and the anti-biotics canceled my bc, which i didnt know would happen. so i just told myself i was stupid enough to put myself in that situation and now i need to be smart and be careful, i would have been a mommy, even though now i still consider myself as a mommy just as a mommy of an angel! I plan to finish college and be married before i have children. so i can have my own house and enough money for the baby.

[Kayannaboo]

There is no such thing as a "grieving timespan" you are free to feel how u feel inside and I am sorry for ur loss, I am glad ur boyfriend has stood by u and ur family should work on being a little more sensititve, having a MC is harder than some people realize and we all deal with our pain in a different way. I think it would be best for you to get a second opinion and get another check up to see what is really wrong with ur body. Do not get too discouraged u r young 18 years, you have plenty of time ahead of you.

[AnnieBrooke]

You're 18 and have been told for "years" that it would take you a long time to get pregnant?  Why were you told you wouldn't be able to carry to term?  It can't be the tilted uterus.  Maybe you do need to see a better doctor.  

[trying43]

I am sorry for your loss.  As far as having a tilted uterus that really has no bearing on having a child.  I also have a tilted uterus as well. I have had 2 m/cs but then carried 3 babies successfully.  I would see another dr and get evaluated and find out why u were told u can't carry a baby to term.  Good luck