what are my options?

[tlc922]

i am going in tomorrow to schedulue for a ovarian cyst removal. i have already had a partial hysterectomy. is total ovaary removal an option for me? i have had so much discomfort from this for several months now. i have had quite a few surgeries in the past and i wonder if i should request that they just be removed.

[hopeshell]

I agree with shewrites.   Every woman is different in how she copes with surgical menopause.  I have heard of women doing very well with the surgery.  But,  I had surgical menopause at the age of 37 due to ovarian cancer and I have struggled with many issues.  I had extreme vaginal dryness, hot flashes and now at the age of 40 I have osteoporosis.  I have taken the recommended calclium and D vitamins daily since my surgery and have tried to remain active to maintain proper bone density.  But, it just wasn't enough.  I am now facing meds to rebuild bone which carry many other possible side effects.  So, it is a very personal choice and only one you and your doctor can make.  My libido has never returned to normal either.  I understand that if you have been suffering for a long time it may be the best thing to remove your ovaries.  Please be sure to discuss all with your doctor and determine if HRT is an option for you.  I believe if I could have taken HRT, then I wouldn't have these complications so soon!  Best wishes to you!

Shelly

[shewrites]

As I understand it, if your ovaries are removed, you go into early menopause.  Some women have an easy time of it -- I did -- but others find it very difficult.  Talk with the doctor to see if hormone replacement is appropriate for you.  An option:  One ovary will "carry the load" if you have the one that's causing you trouble removed.  Good luck making your decision.