I saw your response, sent you a message.
Hi Kalvin,
Thanks for taking the time to respond to my post. I've heard people say similar things about how these message boards are usually for people who have failed surgeries and that the successful ones are not usually discussed here. As the surgery approaches, my mom is becoming a little hesitant. I think it's because she is afraid of the recovery time and whether or not she will be able to do basic things such as taking a shower or using the bathroom.
Was your surgery similar to my mom's? Sounds like it helped? How long did it take for you to recover and were you able to get up within a few days after the surgery? How bad is the recovery period? The pamphlets say 6 months to a year... is this really the case? I am sure they are being on the conservative side, but it really depends on the person, I suppose.
The nurse tells me that my mom will be able to move around right away, but I suppose it will just depend on how well my mom does with the surgery. My main fear is that the surgery will not help and may worsen her condition. But, not taking the chance with surgery is not a good option either because of the amount of pain she is in. I completely agree that diagnosis is key... the MRIs do show some impingement on the nerve, but it's not a textbook case where it's completely clear cut. The fact that the selective nerve root block injections helped, is some confirmation of the source of the problem... is this enough to go off of? I hope so. And quite honestly, I don't know what other tests we could do at this point to confirm. And perhaps the MRIs may not show how severe the problem is and only when you go in there, do you see how bad the pinching might be.
Thanks again for all the information...
Sorry to here your Mom’s been going through all this, and my sympathy to you as well. It’s very difficult to see someone you love suffer, not to mention the stress involved. These boards are not a good place to gauge surgery success rates. On our forum the Neck & Back, several of us are here as a result of failed or unsuccessful surgeries or treatments. Many come looking for answers or compare notes so to speak. Being that several of us have been through these surgeries, medications, incompetent doctors, etc, etc we are able to share experiences and offer support to people who come here scared, in pain or confused. That being said, most people that have successful spine surgeries don’t post on boards like this. They get on with their lives and move on, however there are exceptions.
Its sounds like she’s tried pretty much every conservation treatment out there, the only other option at this point would be Pain Management. Diagnosis is key, in spine surgery. If they can correlate the MRI findings to her symptoms and are reasonable certain the problem’s at L5/S1, the chance of success is very good. The likelihood of the surgery helping, given the type of pain she’s experiencing is much greater, than lets say, something like nonspecific back pain, which is much more difficult to diagnose.
Several years ago, I had a bad fall, got to the point where your Mom is now, practically not being able to walk, MRI showed a large herniation at L4/5. They went in, did what they had to do and it worked out fine. The problem you get into with spine surgery is with people that have so much stuff wrong with their spine, that the odds of surgery in a specific location relieving their pain are not good. Of course, a lot of patients aren’t made aware of this. That’s why it’s not uncommon for some people to have 4 – 5 back or neck surgeries.
Sounds like you’ve done your research. Word of caution, it’s a going to take awhile for her to recover from this, and like you wrote in you’re post, trying to keep her positive help will help tremendously, and it'll help you too.
Hope everything goes well and if you have any questions just let me know.