hi hon: just a few observations------please for a while focus on "you" and not husband....so../......hmmmmmm. I was gonna be good but nmj you need to give up the idea of being with your husband....it is making you un-well to have to deal with him.......he is not going to change and you had better get some distance before the steroid bomb goes off. No kidding hon.....you are not safe.....and you holding on to the fairy-tale idea of being together forever is not good for you.......please see a therapist and stay away from him at least for a while.
Don't mean to be so direct but i have seen the "steroid rage" movie before.
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... Steroid abuse can cause rage problems in some people. I'm not sure how your husband doesn't know about the dangers of using steroids.
I hope your husband will go with you to your doctor and try to educate himself on your medications and realize that you're taking what is necessary and you take them responsibly.
I drive my kids to school every morning in my pajamas. Every once in a while I think about getting in an accident in my pajamas.
Sorry to read all this. I know it would make my anxiety worse. It certainly sounds like you're very responsible with taking your medications. Try to put the DUI out of your mind. If your attorney tells you not to worry, try not to. (I just retired from working in Superior Court so what I'm telling you is what I have experienced through my work. And I've seen the other side of it with my ex-husband who has had several legitimate DUIs.)
Even if things didn't go your way in court, judges most often give probation and/or rehab, either inpatient or outpatient, or AA or NA meetings. I would doubt you have to worry about that as you have a legitimate prescription and the blood work. I'm sorry you ran into a dishonest cop. (Though it's the district attorney that bringsncharges, not the officer.) I've seen how unscrupulous some cops, DAs, and other members of law enforcement can be. Sometimes it seems like it's all about the numbers! You have enough to deal with with your husband so let your attorney worry about your case ... that's what you pay him for.
Just so I'm clear, what are you taking for sleep? I used to take Ambien 10 mg and I was prescribed it 13 years ago when I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia. Ambien has been in the news a lot lately and the new recommendation, for women only, is only 5 milligrams. There's been cases where people experience sort of an amnesia with it. People would take it, go to bed and then get up without knowing it and doing thingsmthey don't remember, like driving, making and eating a meal, etc. It could be the cop was reacting to what was in the news about Ambien.
Do you take pain meds on a regular basis,and if so, what do you take and how much and how often. I've been in pain management for many years after a failed joint replacement and 8 more surgeries, which only led to RSD and more pain. I've been on lots of medications over the years and always asked the doctor about driving. I was always told it was okay to drive, unless I had any side effects like drowsiness. I am always careful about driving in the first week or so if my doctor changed my meds or increased dosages. (I've since come off a lot of meds as they don't work great on my type of pain. There are times I go back on it, like now, when the pain is out of control.)
My ex-husband (ironic coming from an alcoholic and drug user) started telling me and others, that I was an addict. I've never misused my meds and was very careful about always following my doctor's instructions. My sister (who is also an alcoholic) decided she should believe him and accused me of being an addictand demanded, in front of my then 80-year old dad and my four kids, that I go to rehab.
I was very hurt and offended by how they treated me. I invited both of them to come to a pain management appointment and they could talk with the doctors and look at my records. Neither would take me up on that.
But maybe your husband would be open to talking to your doctor with you. It's worth a try. But in all honesty, unless people themselves have chronic pain, it's hard for them to understand it. I get virtually no support from my family. I've now decided that my health and how it's treated is not open for discussion.
I would be more concerned with your husband's steroid use. It is very, very dangerous, and can cause serious physical and mental damage. I hope he isn't abusive with you. Steroid use can cause users