Hi susanwilson,
First, I want to welcome you to the Pain Management Forum and let you know that we are glad you found this Forum. I want to let you know that there are NO Doctors on this Forum, only CP {Chronic Pain} Patients that help each other with our OWN expertise and experiences that we have developed through our OWN CP Issues.
I'm so sorry that your 3 year old Daughter is having so much pain. It's so hard to explain pain to a child. :{ I'm assuming that you took her to her pediatrician. What did he say about her pains that she is experiencing? IF you haven't taken her yet, then it's ALWAYS a good idea to get it checked out. :}
It would be a good idea for you to re-post this on the Pediatrics Forum as they Specialize in questions about children only. :}
I'm giving you th link to that Forum.
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Pediatrics/show/153
I've also alerted the Mods that they might wish to move this Thread to th Pediatrics Forum as you will get more answers to your question over there.
Please know that you are ALWAYS welcome here on the PM {Pain Management} Forum also.
Best of luck.............Sherry :)