I need someone to talk to...

[Crimsontidegulio]

I need someone to talk to I'm 15 and pregnant is anyone willing to keep in contact with me? I need advice from someone older someone who has had a child I need someone to talk to that I know won't tell my secrets...please

[la_reina87]

You can count on me

[Crimsontidegulio]

How old are you?

Have u been pregnant?

Do u have kids?(what age?)

[kfrasher]

Honey you can ask me anything..;-) I'm 34 and preggers with my fourth child..;-)

[Crimsontidegulio]

One of the big things I want to talk about is how do I deal with the rumors and the gossip? Because I know when I start showing people r going to talk....and I already have so many awful rumors

[expectingbaby4]

I'm also here for you.  I'm 26 with my fourth. I was 18 when I got pregnant with my first

[Amanda999]

You can talk to me if you want to hun I was 15 when I got pregnant and I'm now 19 and my son is 3 years old

[Crimsontidegulio]

I feel like this isnt rlly a  question but I'm 5"4 and 106lbs I can't imagine carrying a baby! Any comments?

[kfrasher]

Rumors and gossip are always hard to deal with but you seem mature for a 15 year old..I read your other post and am proud of you for not wanting an abortion..that's a BIG decision to make...whatever is said abt you, just think abt your precious baby and that is all that matters. Young people your age can really say and do mean things but you are stronger than them and will rise above it..!! ;-)

[Crimsontidegulio]

Thank you! My boyfriend is really supportive but goes to a military academy 2 hours away so he can't b here all the time how do I deal with that?

[Abfsmomma]

You can talk to me too, I'm 18 with my first baby and I just got out of school. I was showing when I got out and lots of rumors were spread about me too..but you have to hold your head up high and say forget the rest. Those other kids aren't going to be your babies parent..you are. And your child will need YOU and you only. Those other kids don't mean crap to you compared to your new little bundle. Kids are always gunna talk but you gotta let it roll and think about you and your baby.

[chantelleAlyce]

You can always talk to me :) I'm 18 have a 31 month old and 19 weeks pregnant. The rumours. Well there always going to be there. I was called a **** everything in the world. I got death threats from this girl who was in love with my bf and all his mates even tho he told them to leave me alone and that he was happy about the baby. The thing I found is by ignoring them and pretending as if they don't affect you gets them to stop. People LOVE getting a reaction and live of making other peoples lives Hell. The more reaction you give the more they do it. once they realised they wernt getting anything out of harrasing me it stoped. If you ever need to talk I'm here I no what its like to be in your situation.

[la_reina87]

I'm 24 and pregnant with baby #4. I had my oldest son when I was 19. The rumors and gossip are gonna happen, no doubt about it. But how you handle them are up to you. Don't stress yourself into losing the baby, the first 12 weeks are the most crucial when it comes to miscarriage. I'm sure you already know you're not in an ideal situation, but you don't need anyone else judging you as well. Keep yourself strong for you and your baby's sake. You should talk to your parents, it might not be easy but it is a must. Explain to them that you know what you have done, but you need their support to decide what is best for you and your baby.

[Amanda999]

I know it's hard to imagine a baby inside of you but you'll be fine. My friend is the same height and around the same weight as you and she was fine.

[Crimsontidegulio]

Thank you do much and I feel like a child will keep me more grounded I've struggled with suicide for over 2 years now and having a baby of my own I know I could never leave my child like that! So I believe god gave me this baby for that specific reason

[Crimsontidegulio]

Thank you:)

[kfrasher]

I can't help with your size honey!! Lol..I'm not small at all..;-) I'm 5 " 8 and 200 lbs!! All I can say is you'll most likely look really cute!! Us heavier girls don't always look cute in maternity clothes.( really only meaning myself..no one take that wrong..;-))

[Crimsontidegulio]

Thank you so much and it's true they just want a reaction I just have to keep that in mind thank u!

[chantelleAlyce]

21 month old ***
When your boyfriend is away try leaning on your family for support. My boyfriend and I split when I was pregnant for a couple months and while after and I found my family a great support system and again I find myself alone (his trying so hard to be back in my life but until some things are sorted I can't have him around) and again I'm leaning on my family and mother in law. There very supportive.

[meltollison]

You can talk to me. Its really great you are keeping the baby. And as for your boyfriend if y'all are both willing to work together then it will all work out just keep your head high. Good luck

[chantelleAlyce]

21 month old ***
When your boyfriend is away try leaning on your family for support. My boyfriend and I split when I was pregnant for a couple months and while after and I found my family a great support system and again I find myself alone (his trying so hard to be back in my life but until some things are sorted I can't have him around) and again I'm leaning on my family and mother in law. There very supportive.

[chantelleAlyce]

21 month old ***
When your boyfriend is away try leaning on your family for support. My boyfriend and I split when I was pregnant for a couple months and while after and I found my family a great support system and again I find myself alone (his trying so hard to be back in my life but until some things are sorted I can't have him around) and again I'm leaning on my family and mother in law. There very supportive.

[Crimsontidegulio]

Haha thank you and I really hope I do! When my mom got pregnant with me everyone says she got pregnant all over god i hope that doesn't happen to me

[kfrasher]

Do you have any family/ friends that could be a support group for you while your boyfriend is gone??

[Crimsontidegulio]

Thats another thing.....

His mother hates me with a passion