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Who is the father

In july I sleep with 3 guys, july 8th, July 19, july 20, my period started july 22, I am currently pregnant n I dnt kno who the father is, 2 guys are my exes, that was july 8, 20...my boyfriend was july 19, after my period he is the only guy I was sleeping with, Has anyone else been through this & found out who the father was????? Is my chances higher of getting prego after my period?
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676912 tn?1332812551
The first day of your last period is the first day you are "pregnant' because it's impossible to tell when the baby implanted in your uterus, since it can take 6-12 days. They use the first day as a general idea, and when you have a dating scan the date you are due can change.
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If im 5 weeks how does it make it my boyfriends cuz thats 5 weeks from the 1st day of my last period. If its his I would have to be less cuz if I ovulated after my period n got pregnant then right? Ive never understood that
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My last period was normal. A full 7 days. Its always ontime every 4 weeks
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Thanx for all the feedback, I used a condom with the guy on july 8th. I never use protection with my boyfriend. I used protection with the guy on july 22 but he removed 2 condoms in the process. My boyfriend knows about both guys, I go to the doctor tomorrow to get tested n for confirmation of pregnancy. I always get morning sickness by 6 or 7 weeks so if it waa da guy on the 8th I wud have it by now right? Is it safe to weigh out the option that the guy from july 22 is not the father? My boyfriend wants me to abort the baby or he not sticking around cuz he believes its not his cuz july 22 guy removed his condom
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Depends on how pregnanct you are. If you had a period on the 22nd of July, you are no more than 5 weeks pregnant and the father would be your boyfriend's if he is the only one you have been with since then. If you are further along than 5 weeks, then you didn't have a period. It may have been decidual bleeding. In that case, it would depend how long your cycles are. If they are 28 day cycles, then you may have ovulated between the 8 and 15th which may mean it may be the ex from the 8th. I would advise you to wait until you get a dating scan. If that doesn't provide any answers, then you have to tell your boyfriend. I second the recommendation to get tested for STDs. Good luck
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1355431 tn?1369975306
It is not common to get pregnant a few days before a period. The baby would not have enough time to implant. I would say its your boyfriends since he is the only person you have had sex with since your period. To be safe you may want to let your boyfriend know that you were with theese 2 other guys. Better to give him the heads up now rather than. Also Im assuming the sex with the other 2 guys was unprotected since your asking who the dad is. I think a std check would be a good idea for you and the babys sake. Hope everything works out :)
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134578 tn?1693250592
If you had a period and then got pregnant, the person with whom you slept after the period would be the father.  If it was not really a period but just a little bleeding, then it is anyone's guess.  But if it was a normal-length period, then it's the baby of the guy with whom you slept since the period.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
A female doesn't have a period while pregnant, so the only person it COULD be would be your partners. It would be wise to have a DNA test done. Does your boyfriend know you were with these 2 men? If not, I'd be speaking up soon and talking to him about it.
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