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Stress while Pregnant!!
So my hubby has two kids with his ex. I love his kids, they are my world and I treat them like my own. But this b!tch.. she's stressing me out!
We pay this woman $500 in child support. Every once and a while we miss the full amount by $100 or so. She flips her freaking wig. Like really?? We pay child support every month, whenever she asks for more money for the kids field trips - we give it to her (outside of child support), whenever she needs us to watch the kids - we watch them! My babies came to my house with no freaking underwear on and shorts in 40 degree weather and we gave her clothes from what we bought just so they didn't go without! You know why? Because the stupid b!tch forgot to do laundry!! WTF how do you let your children go to school cold because you didn't do laundry?!!??! But she says my man is a horrible father and not a real man! UGH! Then she complains that her worthless boyfriend cant get a job and shes supporting her household all on her own and its our fault that she's struggling. WHHHATT THE FF???? Her boyfriend watch Alex during the day because our baby boy got kicked out of school. When he got kicked out, we took him and took that responsbility so we could have more time to raise him better and they wouldn't have to worry about day care or anything like that. Well we don't have full custody so the stupid b!tch took him back when she got her panties all in a wad and said "Oh my boyfriend can watch him!" But its our fault?!?!?!? No her boyfriend is a hobo who got you pregnant (Oh yea we're freaking due in the same month!) and she tells us, "Oh you know your not the only one who is expecting a baby in the next few months, I need the full child support." Its not my fault you went and got yourself pregnant by Mr. I like To Sit On The Couch All Day! And then on top of that she's threatening taking him back to court and try to put him in jail. Like dude really he is NOT a dead beat dad! We may not always be able to pay the full amount but he does pay every single month! It is NOT our fault you have $500 car note and jobless boyfriend!
It upsets me because I know my hubby does the best he can and is an absolutely awesome father and partner. I know he doesn't care about her but his dad was a herion addict and he's very hard on himself about how good of a father he is. It just upsets me that she puts those thoughts in his head. I know he won't say anything to me but I see it in his eyes, like it stings him. I just wanna punch her in her throat. It's taking every bit of my control to hold back these crazy hormones. And I have to see her today to pick up my babies for visitation!! >:(
Ugh sorry so long... Rant over :P
We pay this woman $500 in child support. Every once and a while we miss the full amount by $100 or so. She flips her freaking wig. Like really?? We pay child support every month, whenever she asks for more money for the kids field trips - we give it to her (outside of child support), whenever she needs us to watch the kids - we watch them! My babies came to my house with no freaking underwear on and shorts in 40 degree weather and we gave her clothes from what we bought just so they didn't go without! You know why? Because the stupid b!tch forgot to do laundry!! WTF how do you let your children go to school cold because you didn't do laundry?!!??! But she says my man is a horrible father and not a real man! UGH! Then she complains that her worthless boyfriend cant get a job and shes supporting her household all on her own and its our fault that she's struggling. WHHHATT THE FF???? Her boyfriend watch Alex during the day because our baby boy got kicked out of school. When he got kicked out, we took him and took that responsbility so we could have more time to raise him better and they wouldn't have to worry about day care or anything like that. Well we don't have full custody so the stupid b!tch took him back when she got her panties all in a wad and said "Oh my boyfriend can watch him!" But its our fault?!?!?!? No her boyfriend is a hobo who got you pregnant (Oh yea we're freaking due in the same month!) and she tells us, "Oh you know your not the only one who is expecting a baby in the next few months, I need the full child support." Its not my fault you went and got yourself pregnant by Mr. I like To Sit On The Couch All Day! And then on top of that she's threatening taking him back to court and try to put him in jail. Like dude really he is NOT a dead beat dad! We may not always be able to pay the full amount but he does pay every single month! It is NOT our fault you have $500 car note and jobless boyfriend!
It upsets me because I know my hubby does the best he can and is an absolutely awesome father and partner. I know he doesn't care about her but his dad was a herion addict and he's very hard on himself about how good of a father he is. It just upsets me that she puts those thoughts in his head. I know he won't say anything to me but I see it in his eyes, like it stings him. I just wanna punch her in her throat. It's taking every bit of my control to hold back these crazy hormones. And I have to see her today to pick up my babies for visitation!! >:(
Ugh sorry so long... Rant over :P
If they know people*
Not even that if they people, Jess. Hubby's first wife is in Texas. He had proof that his daughter was being molested by her mother's boyfriends and they still wouldn't do anything until she turned 13 and said she wanted to live with her dad. Then they kept letting her push out the court dates for almost another two yrs while she bribed his kids to stay with her. It worked with their son but his daughter came to stay with us. You need to document absolutely everything and hope that it's enough.
And tbj, I actually agree that your post was the one that came off judgmental and hostile. This is a public forum but if you haven't been through it you shouldn't get into the thread. You just came off as wicked offensive and made it seem like anyone who's married into a family situation like this brought the drama on themselves.
And tbj, I actually agree that your post was the one that came off judgmental and hostile. This is a public forum but if you haven't been through it you shouldn't get into the thread. You just came off as wicked offensive and made it seem like anyone who's married into a family situation like this brought the drama on themselves.
You found me pompous... and I found you hostile to each their own. Why didn't you post this under pregnant:social where it belongs. And if that's your idea on how to handle stress you seem a lil immature. I mean you're mad because one person disagreed with you? That's sad.... you can say what you want but be assured I will promptly forget this conversation and you and go back to my baby bliss. Good luck
That is why we are afraid to take her to court! Texas is very liberal and noramally on the woman's side of these kinds of cases. I mean it takes some serious screw ups for the woman to lose her child, like drugs and stuff like that. :(
This is so sad! There are so many women out there dying to have children or have ACTUAL dead beat dads, not even wanting to take care of their pregnant girlfriends or children. Men like my man are made to look bad because of women like this. I wish we could all just ban together and take em all out! Lol
Hostile? Did you see the topic of my post.. STRESS. I am not hostile, or a "baby mama." If I was hostile, I wouldn't be expressing my feeling here. I would be expressing my feelings with my foot down her throat. There is a difference.
I found your post a little pompous and unnecessary. I posted to get this off my chest, knowing there are other women who have experienced or experiencing my pain. Not to have someone who has no idea what I am going through to chime in with a pointless comment. Your right, this is public. Have your own opinion but it would nice for you to stick to stuff you actually know a thing or two about instead of something that just interests you.
I found your post a little pompous and unnecessary. I posted to get this off my chest, knowing there are other women who have experienced or experiencing my pain. Not to have someone who has no idea what I am going through to chime in with a pointless comment. Your right, this is public. Have your own opinion but it would nice for you to stick to stuff you actually know a thing or two about instead of something that just interests you.
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