Stress while Pregnant!!

[jess-ann5]

So my hubby has two kids with his ex. I love his kids, they are my world and I treat them like my own. But this b!tch.. she's stressing me out!

We pay this woman $500 in child support. Every once and a while we miss the full amount by $100 or so. She flips her freaking wig. Like really?? We pay child support every month, whenever she asks for more money for the kids field trips - we give it to her (outside of child support), whenever she needs us to watch the kids - we watch them! My babies came to my house with no freaking underwear on and shorts in 40 degree weather and we gave her clothes from what we bought just so they didn't go without! You know why? Because the stupid b!tch forgot to do laundry!! WTF how do you let your children go to school cold because you didn't do laundry?!!??! But she says my man is a horrible father and not a real man! UGH! Then she complains that her worthless boyfriend cant get a job and shes supporting her household all on her own and its our fault that she's struggling. WHHHATT THE FF???? Her boyfriend watch Alex during the day because our baby boy got kicked out of school. When he got kicked out, we took him and took that responsbility so we could have more time to raise him better and they wouldn't have to worry about day care or anything like that. Well we don't have full custody so the stupid b!tch took him back when she got her panties all in a wad and said "Oh my boyfriend can watch him!" But its our fault?!?!?!? No her boyfriend is a hobo who got you pregnant (Oh yea we're freaking due in the same month!) and she tells us, "Oh you know your not the only one who is expecting a baby in the next few months, I need the full child support." Its not my fault you went and got yourself pregnant by Mr. I like To Sit On The Couch All Day! And then on top of that she's threatening taking him back to court and try to put him in jail. Like dude really he is NOT a dead beat dad! We may not always be able to pay the full amount but he does pay every single month! It is NOT our fault you have $500 car note and jobless boyfriend!

It upsets me because I know my hubby does the best he can and is an absolutely awesome father and partner. I know he doesn't care about her but his dad was a herion addict and he's very hard on himself about how good of a father he is. It just upsets me that she puts those thoughts in his head. I know he won't say anything to me but I see it in his eyes, like it stings him. I just wanna punch her in her throat. It's taking every bit of my control to hold back these crazy hormones. And I have to see her today to pick up my babies for visitation!!  >:(

Ugh sorry so long... Rant over  :P

[Jeanne86]

I feel u,it is the same here but she can't have kids anymore and freaked out when she found out I'm pregnant.she is horrible mother.u don't even know why he's giving child support to her because her mother has them 24/7.and then on top she start stalking me and being aggressive till police came. :/

[jamie2464]

Me personally call cps not for abuse but for neglect...so when ya do get a chance ro go to court everything u guys have is proof shes unfit....hope u guys resolve this sticky situation and try not too stress ok mama

[ross1112]

I hate women like that, that don't take care of their kids, is true, u should take pictures of them like that and write everything that she does, and we u can take her to court, do it, women like that don't deserve their kids

[KieaRai]

My husband's first wife does the same crap. His child support is done with this month and now she's threatening to take him to court to get his retirement and kick out their son if he doesn't keep sending her money. She's had 3 other children all by different men and makes more in a month off child support from them than most people make in 6 months. We tried taking her to court and they basically told us we were just being petty and didn't want to pay. Well of course we don't want to  give her his retirement! She's not entitled to it! She was married to him for 4 yrs during his 22 yr military career. In order to get his retirement she would have had to been married to him for 10 and have tried to get it at the time of their divorce. We got the case moved here so she can't try to get a judge she knows and pull one over on us. It's been 3 yrs since hubby got out of the army and she hasn't asked for retirement once so our judge basically told her she's a money grubbing heifer and to take her crap out of his court room.
For years he tried to get his kids from her but no matter how much evidence he had that she was an unfit mother, her judge friend wouldn't do anything about it. In this day, it's really about who you know that can help you screw people over. It's sad.

[babysept2014]

Well I would say take her *** to court for him to have full custody! But I understand not having the money, always something to put a damper on it.
It just ***** the kids have to go through all that mess. She seems a mess herself an taking advantage of the child support she gets. I'd wanna punch her in the throat too!

[tbj1985]

Whoa chick this a is a public forum... I didn't see you post the reason why until now. But I can post however I feel. If you can't handle that it's your issue not mine sweetheart. And I said usually there's a lot of animosity not always but you seem to be a hostile person so I'm looking at what she's dealing with too.