should I let my bf parents go the hospital when I have my baby.

[Angelina19900]

I over heard my boy friends Dad talking about why does my bf take care of my son that isn't hes. It has upset me . When I git with my bf he understood I'm a package. It took every ounce in me not to act ratchet. And talk shhh to him.now I dont want him around my son or he's first grand daughter! If he feels like that. I take it serious when you talk about my son! It shouldn't of came out he's mouth. Most of all he had no balls to tell me to my face. I had my boyfriend tell he's Dad something but I'm upset. I just wanna cuss him out! I hate putting my biz out but I'm still angry. And wanna confront him! Why was he talking about my son in the first place

[turkey_club_0214]

Yeah because you are the mom and he was the one that talked crap he has to do things on ur own terms. Yeah he will be part of ur baby's life always but he shouldn't ve expressed himself like that about ur kid. Yes ur bf told him something but if your STILL angry I would confront the dad and just tell him u heard what he said, that there will be no preference on the kids and if any he won't see the baby until he changes. Again, that's what I would do.

[patty1848]

It's messed up he said that about your first baby, but u gotta understand how parents are reluctant to accept girls with "packages." With that being said, that wasn't nice and I would be so upset that I wouldn't want him around.
But you both need to understand neither of you is going away and have to deal with each other because after all he's still your bf's dad.
so your bf has to talk to him and demand respect or tell him if he is going to act like that your kids and u will not be in contact with them (and hope that that works).
At the same time, if your new baby is his grandkid as much as u don't like him he still the grandpa.

My suggestion is that if your bf's parents aren't allowed to go, neither should your parents and let this be just you and your hubby's experience.  Just to keep things fair and u don't seem like a _itch.

But for sure, don't allow him in labor.  That'd be uncomfortable.  Idk. What do u think?

[Angelina19900]

Thanks girlys for the helpful advice :) so I should confront he's Dad even tho My boy friend did already ?  

[Daniellerene]

I totally agree with ajrain ... Both children should be treated the same with no favorites ... that's how we treat our kids even though my hubby isn't my son's real blood father and I'm not his daughters blood mother I treat her like my son and he treats my son like his daughter and so does our families

[turkey_club_0214]

I think u should confront the dad because if u ask ur bf yeah he might tell him,  but it's his dad, he is not gonna want to hurt him or put him in a uncomfortable situación, but of you tell him he will know you mean serious business and you will be able to say what u want.

[rosealie23]

Yup I would say no contact if they not treated the same.