should I let my bf parents go the hospital when I have my baby.

[Angelina19900]

I over heard my boy friends Dad talking about why does my bf take care of my son that isn't hes. It has upset me . When I git with my bf he understood I'm a package. It took every ounce in me not to act ratchet. And talk shhh to him.now I dont want him around my son or he's first grand daughter! If he feels like that. I take it serious when you talk about my son! It shouldn't of came out he's mouth. Most of all he had no balls to tell me to my face. I had my boyfriend tell he's Dad something but I'm upset. I just wanna cuss him out! I hate putting my biz out but I'm still angry. And wanna confront him! Why was he talking about my son in the first place

[turkey_club_0214]

To bad for him. His attitude will not allow him to be a part of his granddaughter. Nobody should mess with the kids, they are sacarte!

[ajrain8386]

Even though ur bf dad is being a jerk, I still think they should be allowed to see the grand baby be born. I would confront him though, and let him know there will be no favoritism and both your children. Should be treated equal, blood or not!

[rosealie23]

I am glad you bf is nice to your son and you.. but that is maddening and I would be just is mad as you. I get defensive too and to me you are being reasonable... talk to you bf tell him you over heard the conversation and they need to accept you and both kids as family or none because there is no picking and choosing is all or none. I am sure he would understand and maybe can explain it to them.

[Angelina19900]

I told my boy friend what I heard and.he.went.to tell he's Dad something. But girly I totally agree with you! What I cant grip is hes dad was talking ugly about my son and being nasty! And I never knew he felt that way! I surprised he would talk about a child! Sets me over the edge

[turkey_club_0214]

But tell him that if u see any difference in how he treats both of them, there will be no contact until he accepts things how they are.

My opinion ;)

[turkey_club_0214]

U said you had to tell your bf to say something to his dad right? You shouldn't have to tell him what to say, he should've responded right away defending you and your kid. Apparently ur bfs dad doesn't agree and might not agree. But he can accept. How is he around ur 2 year old?. I would confront him (the dad) and demand respect for ur kid and if he wants to be involved with the baby he needs to accept u and with the kid. If u see that he treats the baby better and ignores the kid u should not let him see the baby until he changes.