should I let my bf parents go the hospital when I have my baby.

[Angelina19900]

I over heard my boy friends Dad talking about why does my bf take care of my son that isn't hes. It has upset me . When I git with my bf he understood I'm a package. It took every ounce in me not to act ratchet. And talk shhh to him.now I dont want him around my son or he's first grand daughter! If he feels like that. I take it serious when you talk about my son! It shouldn't of came out he's mouth. Most of all he had no balls to tell me to my face. I had my boyfriend tell he's Dad something but I'm upset. I just wanna cuss him out! I hate putting my biz out but I'm still angry. And wanna confront him! Why was he talking about my son in the first place

[rosealie23]

That is ridiculous, I can not believe how mean that man is. You can have his son a baby but he expects his son not to be a father to your other child. If they can't be a family to your other child then they don't get any child and I would tell them just like that. I am very angry anyone could act like that toward a child and they are not even my kids... good luck.

[Angelina19900]

My boy friend is the most amazing man I've met . He accepts im a package. And takes care of us. I never need or want with him. But I had no idea he's family felt some type of way towards my son.

[Angelina19900]

Is it wrong to just want him to treat my son the same as he would do he's grand baby?  that is why I walked away and didn't tell him anything cuz im in defensive mode.

[Daniellerene]

My hubby I'm with now excepts my 8 yo as his own he told his and my family that he is his dad that he 'took over payments' cause my son's actual dad is a dead beat pos (nice way of putting him) .... but i would talk to your bf cause if he loves you and your son his family should respect that.. and he should confront his family and ask if they have a problem and if so then they don't need too be around any of the kids

[nannewmom]

That's wrong he shouldn't have said that, so sorry you are dealing with drama, while pregnant last thing you need. I think if you and your bf have an understanding, and like you said its a package deal. I would expect my man to stand up for me and my son, when his dad said that. He should of squashed it right away. If it bothers you this much you should talk to the grandpa to be. Cause his gonna be in your life and you dont want that tension there. You have the right to express that upset you. Hope it all works out♡

[Angelina19900]

Girl you completely understand me! My bf told hes dad he's gonna be with me and my son if he's dont like or not.but I'm still upset that he said some things about my 2 year old. If he's gonna be like that I don't want him around me or let him see he's first grand baby!