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9263335 tn?1403463032

:'( Hospitals suck...

So me & my husband are at the hospital with my 3 yr old brother & it breaks my  heart to see him in so much pain. He's been in & out of the hospital since May 13 & my mom only told me 2 weeks ago that he had been hospitalized. I'm praying that he gets better because they keep saying it's Leukemia & then it's not & it's frustrating that they don't know 100%. He got liquid taken out of his bone marrow twice & it hurts me to see him in so much pain his poor hips hurt from the liquid that was taken out & it hurts him to the point where he's screaming but the strange thing is once I got here his pain was reduced. My mom said we must have a spiritual connection because my dad touched his leg & he was crying & screaming but when I touched his leg he didn't cry & even asked for a massage. He fell asleep & was calm as I massaged his leg I really don't want to leave but my back is killing me, my head hurts, & I wanna go to sleep...
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9263335 tn?1403463032
Thank you girls❤ I think it went better than I expected & my dad was being so nice to me & my husband & my mom the total opposite..It hurt me so much to see my little brother in pain & when I said goodbye to him he cried & he hasn't gotten out of bed in 3 days & he walked me out of his room holding my hand it was just an emotional moment of course my dad was holding him & my uncle pushing his thingy where he had his fluids hooked up. I felt so bad but we walked him to the play room thinking we were going to play & since my cousins where there they distracted him as me & my husband walked out. I really wish I could have stayed but with my moms negative comments towards me & my husband & how she & my aunts were just critizing us in their minds ugh it was too awkward. The good thing is that my husband said he's taking me again on Wed or Thursday so that I can get some rest after today.
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9121436 tn?1407979502
Praying for your little brother. With 6 brother and one little sister I can't imagine how your feeling. Specially when it come to the younger siblings. That's so precious that he wants you to message his leg. Little brothers love their sister so deeply. It's such an honor to be a big sister! Good luck to you and the little man.
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I hope all goes well may god protect your brother
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Prayed for your brother last night and will continue praying for him, I'm glad that you made it there to be by his side, I know when my grandpa was in the hospital I would go every day just sit by him laugh,talk etc sadly tomorrow will mark three years him being in heaven. I miss him everyday ,he was my father figure but I know he's watching over me. Well Melissa take care of yourself don't want to put to much stress on your baby,msg me if you need someone to talk to.
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Sorry to hear that, i hop u'r brother be ok soon,
Can't u sleep with him! Like asking for pelow and some matress to sleep on?
I know it is the hardest thing to do during pregnancy..
Hop everything will be fine for you & him
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