The original poster is going through enough right now without some of you telling her she will be murdering her baby and betraying God. Yes, I believe babies are a blessing but we can't decide this for her. She simply asked about the procedures not if you thought she should have an abortion.
I'm going to pray you don't get an abortion. God doesn't bless people with children for no reason. He blessed you knowing you could do it. Even if you choose adoption, dont betray God. Please sweetie rethink your decision. God have you this baby, and he will by all means support that baby. Also if you say your boyfriend is verbally abusive, you should rethink being in a relationship with him. You'll be in my prayers, and I send u many blessings.:)
aww im sorry u been going thru this..i dont really know how to give advice about it...i know a baby is a blessing and things happen for a reason :)
Something I see, hear, and read a lot of is embarrassment when you have problems. I agree that you do need some sort of counseling/someone to talk to. BUT what I mean by embarrassment is that I see a lot of people NOT ask for help because of it. Don't be. You're have a lot on your plate, let someone help you work through it.
I would suggest counseling, period, to help you cope with your relationship and adjust to your new place. You're under a lot of stress right now, and this is a big decision. Doesn't matter whether you choose to keep the baby, terminate or give it up, it's always a big responsibility and you will live with your decision for the rest of your life. Deal with the stress, fear, and relationship issues, and making the choice that's right for you will be easier.
If you don't know anybody where you are, call a trusted friend or check your phone listings for mental health or counseling services. Good luck!