About ready to cry my eyes out...

[honeybear56]

I dont know if its cause its getting closer to the delivery time or my hormones are just really start to effect me but im getting so sad. I spent all yesturday and most of today trying to make myself happy. I even went to buy baby girl clothes and well i wasnt even excited about that. I feel so poopie and mopie. All i wanna do is lay in bed and curl up and sleep. I have never been this sad before. There is so much going on in my life that people know exactly what to do to push my bottons and make me wanna cry for days. Im tire of it. I wanna shut myself from the world (minus my hubby..only person who makes me happy but hes millions and millions of miles away). I just wanna be happy..i mean dont get me wrong i am happy, i love the fact that im hitting 3rd trimester with baby Kaelyn and that soon enough my hubby will be home with baby and me. But im so sad that he wont be here for the delivery and im scared that i wont have anyone there with me. I mean this is a happy time...but apparently just cause i decided to keep the baby my family doesnt even care. I dont know what to do....anyone have any advice?

[bbymommaX2]

I feel the exactly the same way. its weeks to my due date and i've been nothing but depressed about everything.

[onlyme27]

I probably sound like a broken record, but everything will be OK.  Even if your family has nothing to do with the child, you will do fine.  There are people who have children w/out support everyday and make it fine.  It won't be easy but it's not impossible.  You have any friends close to you?  

[honeybear56]

Yeah they do but they live in Maryland, i was there for there support and help but i could not stand living there anymore i was stuck in a house all day and i went into depression. But since i moved here they havent really talked to me. I tried calling yesturday to tell them the sex of the baby as well as that we are moving to GA come July and she never answered and never called me back. Im not sure...

[onlyme27]

A lot of it is probably your hormones.  I felt that way when I was pregnant from time to time.  Just sit down and yourself a good cry.  It feels better to just let it out.  Like Joy said, your family will more than likely come around when the baby gets here.  Babies have a way of doing that.  Does any of his family have something to do with you?  

[luv4ver]

i no what its like to not have the hubby around but i cant imagine while pregnant. \jus keep trying to look at the positives. Glass half full not half empty kinda thing. Im sure like JoyRenee said things will turn around after your baby is born. Hope you cheer up!!

[JoyRenee]

*HUGS* Once baby is born your family may come around! Things were tense between my mom-in-law and me and then my daughter was born and it was like a lightswitch!