Advice?!?! c-section vs natural..

[Leeslow]

Okay, so I went into false labor a couple of weeks ago. Nov 26 is/was my due date... I had a docs appointment and he said my baby was to big she weighs 8.2 ounces as of today and since its my first baby he doesn't want her to get stuck or whatever but anyways .tomorrow I see him again..  he's going to give me options on either getting a c section- and natural. I honestly don't know which to choose! I don't want to get get induced and.not open and then have to go through a c section.. cause it would be worthless. Or should I just go right in with the c section? -_- help please advice! Tomorrows the big day that I choose!! - sorry that its to long.

[Leeslow]

I think I am going to try natural first, I've already had a freaking crazy/hard pregnancy might as well and go all out. I'll just be sure to ask my doctor tons of questions tomorrow and hopefully he helps me more with a choice. Yes! I need to relax hah, because if not I won't get any sleep at all plus knowing that I get to meet her soon is enough to keep me awake aha..

[Heartless512]

Most of  the woman in my family have never been able to have a baby naturally and I even explain that to the dr but like my dr said everyone is different in my case it wasn't but like I said mama u never know I know alot of women in here are against it but its not as bad it goes either way there always a good and bad said to either c-section or vaginally u won't know till u try I guess..

[Shirano]

I agree with heartless512 don't stress see how things go and your plans can change in the middle.

[Shirano]

Some people do ask for it. It's a personal choice but as I said you can at least try for a natural and see how you progress and go from there. Just because your mom didn't progress doesn't mean you won't. Although you could have situation like your mom. It's really up in the air. The choice is yours alone no one can make it for you. You know what is best for you and your baby. I just wanted to give you info on it. I hope I helped and didn't just freak you out. It's nothing to lose sleep over its just something to think about.

[Heartless512]

Don't worry like the other ladies said try naturally but if u feel like it's not working out for u after a while look for other options and opinions but mostly do what u feel is best for u and ur baby and people ask but honestly some places either its the hospital or the state ur in depending on how they work there either u have the option or not like in my case it was more like a last resort but like I said it should of been a last resort after the first tried of my induction but don't worry everything will work out and don't get scare and nervous relax and just think of how soon u will get to meet ur lil angel :)

[Leeslow]

Oh awesome haha to bad my daughter wasn't born at her time haha :( and I am just so nervous now, like I honestly don't know what to choose I want to be open minded. Since its my first and I am so not knowledged about thwart things cause I haven't have birth haha. Like I hear horrible things from both sides. And I'm fine with the long comments haha I won't be sleeping tonight :/