BabysDad

[Askeete17]

How do I stop caring so much about him?? I love him to death but hes not good for me and I dnt kno how to stop. I dny kno if I can. He just up n left town n wont tell me where hes at or how long hes gonna be gone. Hes gonna miss out on finding out the sex.

[mushie156]

I was with my baby father for 3 yrs living together everything I'm 15wk s weeks pregnant he packed his things moved out that was in december it was hard for me as well but I started to see I never ment anything to him if he could do that I was crying every night but that didn't last long I realized I have to worry bout and stressing over a sorry dude is not healthy for my child I had to be strong not just for me but my baby fight want to miscarriage... Now he wants too come around but on his time... I'm telling you this because I'm 23 living alone no job right now nd going to be a single mom... You have to realize hess not worth it time will tell you that it won't be easy.. Its he s lost not yours... You have a blessing with you that need you.. Take care of yourself to make sure YOUR child is healthy!!! Forget him dont sweat him he may come around he may not but period you dont ned him... And I'm still trying to realize that myself... Just be strong and have faith.. sometimes it takes thing s like this to se who really there for you... He showed you his colors so believe that... But one thing if he does decide to come around dont deny him of that... Whether you get back with him out not just have your guards up and be careful... He could be just scared like my baby father but so much time went by I dont want him anymore I lost all respect for him... I hope I helped some... Nd congrats!!!

[kai0912]

Trust me hun if hes no good for you it may take a while but one day you will realize that amd you will get sick of him and be ready and willing to let him go.... It took me 4 years and almost 2kids but we are better off with out him.....

[Askeete17]

Thank you all im really trying so hard but its difficult. I just wish I could have that idgaf attitude towards him

[mybaby2]

It's hard and you will always care for him.  Hopefully he will come around and if not he is the one missing out of the most wonderful thing.  You have to be strong and take care of you and your baby.  Motherhood is the most wonderful gift and you want your child to grow up seeing you strong and happy. I wish the best of luck to you.

[shanniree]

you will never be able to stop caring for him. He is the father of your baby and there will always be that special place in your heart for him. Right now the best thing to do is just focus on you and the baby. I know Its easier said than done but in time it will get easier.

[snickers83]

I'm sorry your going through a rough time right now. You have to think about whats right for you and the baby. No matter what your always gonna love him because you guys are gonna have a baby. You need to try not to stress. Remember what you feel is what the baby feels. Enjoy your pregnancy with or without him. He might change and come around but right now its about you and your baby. Good luck!!!