Well I havent been married, but I am with someone who my parents havent met, been together for just under a year and we are unmarried. I broke the news to my parents on Christmas day. Mum was a bit shocked but is now excited... she was more worried that she had never met my partner! But either way I live my life I am happy and that is all that matters :-)
Oh and I am almost 15 weeks :-)
thanks, i hope they'll come round in the end, been a big stress them not knowing so i suppose dealing with the aftermath will be easier. they're not mean people, but from a different era and would never divorce without a serious reason, im not sure they class not being in love as one of them. i just wish i could take their worries away, cos if they could see how happy i am or had any idea how unhappy i was, they wouldnt worry so much. as i say they are from another era and we dont do "feelings"!!
well, it didnt go down well at all :'(
im sorry to see it didnt go over well, i say give them time to come around...
fingers crossed. theyre just so old fashioned, youd think it was the end of the world. gonna just have to leave them to it for a while, and hope it gets better. wonder if theyd rather have found out i was alcoholic or a junkie?!!! probably, then they could 'help'. leaving me to be a grown up and live my life my way? no way!!! (im 31!!)
Just give them time they will come round it takes time but im sure things will work out, its a parents job to worry or so I have heard, it will all be worth it x
Just give them time they will come round it takes time but im sure things will work out, its a parents job to worry or so I have heard, it will all be worth it x
feeling a little better today, i know theyre just worried for me, at least their brutal honesty gave me a chance to explain some background of both my marriage and current relationship. im sure it will all calm down, i hope so anyway. thanks for the comments girls x